Should a man to take the initiative in asking for a date?

Question

Always? Sometimes? Never?

Answer 1

Of course not always! In general I think a guy should make the first move, but it's nice when a girl discreetly gives the go sign so that he knows he won't get smashed. Then again, some shy cases need a bit of push and some men even like it when women hit on them.

Answer 2

Sociological studies say, yes, since relationships have a better chance of working out if the man initiates them. Most of the time, I'd say, the man should be the asker. I hope this "retro" fact doesn't disappoint you. Let me go on to say that a woman can encourage a man by smiling at him, always being interested in what he has to say, being warm and responsive. Both people play a part! From my experiences with friends who've used match.com, I find that if the woman intitiates the contact even on internet dating sites, the relationship often does not bloom. It seems we can't fight our hard-wiring! But don't let that discourage you. Remember, "he chased her till she caught him."!

Answer 3

I think that dating has changed a great deal over the years. Women no longer need chaperones to go out on the date with them. Couples live together before getting married. You know, so on and so on. For this reason, I don't think that men necessarily need to be the one that takes the first step. If you want to go on the date with the guy, ask him! If you're not the courageous type, pump up the flirting. Casually suggest to go to the movies. (: goodluck

Answer 4

Sometimes

Answer 5

For the most part yes but if you find that the guy your waiting for is just beating around the bush then it's the girls job.

Answer 6

Sometimes but not always....

Answer 7

Well i think that he should i mean it shows that he has confident in his self and most women like that!

Answer 8

Yes but not always.