When you are in love with your partner, is it OK to like others? Let's say, You are still in love with your husband/wife/girlfriend... but once in a while you find yourself fantasizing with other people but you never date them or do anything at all... Do you ever feel like that?
2007-02-15 04:12:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it's normal to have fantasies and feel attracted to others, and I don't think there's anything to prevent it! As long as you and your husband have a close relationship and don't ever act on those feelings, things will be OK. If your husband is upset by it, then don't share them. Most husbands also have fantasies or find other women attractive. As long as you both understand this and trust each, this is perfectly fine.
2007-02-15 04:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by kristin c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea sometimes but the truth is the reason why you think like that is maybe thats what the partner is lacking or you just want a change something new but if it was true i doubt you would be down with it YOU KNOW? but it okay to fantasize about other people it turns up the spice
2007-02-15 04:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by SANDIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I have been married 20 years. I would never consider being unfaithful to my husband - but sometimes I do fantasize about others.
2007-02-15 04:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by wild_orchid_tx36 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel like that. Once in a while. I know that I love my husband, but I have a huge crush on someone we are friends with. I would never act on it - but it is nice to have a little fantasy.
2007-02-15 04:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by Catherine T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone feels like that because our brains are programmed that way. The equivalent of why your guy looks at the girl with her breasts all exposed in public.
It comes down to this though, there is a difference between fantasy and thinking it is real or a favorite word of mine: thy shall not COVET.
2007-02-15 04:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is normal to fantasize but don't act on the fantasy..
2007-02-15 04:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Silly crushes are to be expected. It is what you do with them that matters. Don't act on them, but enjoy the knowledge that your still alive and normal.
I tell my husband about my crushes, and he laughs at me. Likewise he tells me his, and I poke fun at him for it.
2007-02-15 04:30:31 · answer #7 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal because we love to be liked then why cant we like other people if it is in boundaries and we have allot of Friends. like other people and be their Friend but try do not hurt your personal life with it and keep it separate.
2007-02-15 04:18:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal. Remember Jimmy Carter saying he "...lusted in his heart"?
No, you probably don't. Most people don't remember that Jimmy carter was president. Sad, really. But I digress.
2007-02-15 04:18:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HEHE i guess its normal. But ive never done that before maybe coz my bf satisfies me fully haha
2007-02-15 04:17:17 · answer #10 · answered by ILOVEU 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋