she nevr stops talking about how cool he is. been there, done that
2007-02-15 03:31:00 · 22 answers · asked by iluvhandschuh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell her that you would rather not talk about your ex, even though they are her current.
2007-02-15 03:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by Jo 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That must be hard on you. Or at least annoying. Have you ever thought to talk to her about how you feel? Cause if it bothers you a lot a TRUE friend would stop seeing them. If not, or doesn't seem to care much about how you feel you might want to concider finding better friends. I personally would never date a friends's ex without discussing it with my friend. But I care about my friends and no guy is worth ruining a great friendship!
2007-02-15 11:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by Starr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend may be immature and doesn't realize how you feel about hearing her talk about your ex. She might really think that since you are over, you don't care. If she is a good friend that you want to keep, let her know how her talk makes you feel. She may be clueless! If she continues after that, then she is not your friend. Avoid her if you can. If you can't avoid her, try to ignore her. Good luck!
2007-02-15 11:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by peacepusher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally wouldn't care if a friend dated an ex, because he is my ex for a reason, and maybe they make a better fit. But if I were you I would ask her to chill on all the "talk" about him and try to find other things to talk about.
2007-02-15 11:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by magnolia_76 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's awful :-(
One rule that ALL FRIENDS should follow is the "No dating ex's rule"
You are not supposed to date your friend's ex's, and she is not supposed to date your ex's! That is the quickest way to ruin a frienship!
Sounds like you need to stop talking to her so much, and find a different friend.
Cheers
2007-02-15 11:34:27 · answer #5 · answered by Daft One 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not realy much of a friend - huh? That's supposed to be off limits tell her to read the friends ship hand book.
2007-02-15 11:35:35 · answer #6 · answered by Theresa J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not a very good friend. It is a cardinal rule you do not go out with friends exes!
2007-02-15 11:34:28 · answer #7 · answered by peeps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never talk about your new relationships to your friends? She's just excited. If you're uncomfortable with it stop hanging out with her.
2007-02-15 11:35:04 · answer #8 · answered by blcria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so your friend is going out with your ex. What's the problem? They are obviously both single and free to choose who they want to go out with.
2007-02-15 11:34:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not only is she dating your ex but she doesnt even have the descency to keep some things to herself.
Very selfish friend you got there...
2007-02-15 11:34:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋