as some people already know im going out with this guy who i really like wait scratch that who i really love the thing is b4 i started dating him he was showing interest in one of my close freinds now that im going out with him she is really upset even though when he was showing interest she turnd him down i really love him and dont want to lose him to but i dont want to lose her either what do you think i should do to settle everthing between the three of us
2007-02-15 03:05:38 · 2 answers · asked by bb2 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately you may not be able to resolve this issue between you and the other 2 people. Like you said, before you started dating him, he was showing interest in one of your friends, she didn’t respond to him in the manner in which he wanted so he moved on. Him moving on to you isn’t something that she more than likely wasn’t expecting and now she doesn’t know how to deal with it. He’s some what at fault as well for moving in between friends but he can’t help whom he has feelings for. What you need to do it talk to her, see what her feelings are as far as you being with him, now. Let her know that, if you would’ve known she would’ve been upset that you wouldn’t have dated him (regardless if it’s true or not). Tell her that now that you are dating him, you’d like for her to be happy for you and him and that you want her to still be friends with you. Hope for the best but be prepared for the worse. Best of luck with your situation!
2007-02-15 03:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a victim of circumstances...just try to play everything down and don't get upset if it doesn't work out the way you want it too..
good luck..
2007-02-15 03:17:39 · answer #2 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋