2007-02-15 02:50:18 · 22 answers · asked by gazala k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No it's not wrong...but you should try to move on and find someone who will love you back.
2007-02-15 02:54:23 · answer #1 · answered by superstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong i mean u can't help how u feel for someone. If u know that it would never go any where and that he would never fall in love with u then that is the chance u are taking with your feelings. Nor u can't help how u feel i think u need to think about how it is affecting u inside and maybe u should move on and meet some new people.
2007-02-15 10:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right? I hardly think that's the right word to use. There is no right and wrong in matters of the heart. Of course, you're asking the question, so the answer does lie somewhere. No one is going to agree with you, so why did you ask it? Were you hoping for reassurance? Do you think some magical moment will happen and they will begin to change their feelings? Take up a hobby and work on improving you. In time, your feelings will change as you grow stronger and more self-assured...
2007-02-15 10:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong in Loving some one that doesn't but it is wrong to expect them to love you back , there is nothing wrong in hoping that someday that special someone will love you back. But it is wrong to interfere in their lives and stop you from living yours. If you really love them then you should be happy in their happiness and sad in their sorrows. BUT if expect them to Love you and Be yours then you are going to hurt allot of people, especially those who you love the most and most of all yourself. so be careful, You can pray for them to be yours but you cant force them. remember that. It is always better to be a friend for life then a fling for 2 weeks. what do you think? Its up to you. I would personally prefer to be their all his life, be the shoulder he needs to cry on. Be the smile in his heart rather then the one temporarily on his face. Good Luck
2007-02-15 11:47:57 · answer #4 · answered by Sheetal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't choose who you love, it just happens. But if you do love someone who doesn't love you, likely in the end you are going to get your feelings hurt. So I suggest finding someone who will appreciate you and love you for who you are...
2007-02-15 10:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by Starr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have done that before and the problem with this is that when you do this, you set yourself up for failure in the long run. he will take advantage because he knows that you do love him and you probably won't leave. your job is to know your self worth and although you cannot control who you love and who loves you, you can start by respecting your self and know that you deserve better than what you are allowing.
2007-02-15 11:07:43 · answer #6 · answered by HONDALUVA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you "settle" for someone that does not love you back? The better question to ask yourself is " why don't I think that I'm worth it to be truly loved by someone? Why punish yourself ? Why wouldn't you want to be truly happy?
2007-02-15 11:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your wasting your life, chasing a dream that can't come true, loving someone that can't love u back is a waste of love, and will stop u and keep u trapped and unable to even consider anyone else.
2007-02-15 11:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens all the time and that doesn't make it right. Not enough details to give a more detailed answer. Don't be nieve..you know there's a problem and you know what the CORRECT thing to do is..don't get in a lamebrain rutt.
2007-02-15 11:14:35 · answer #9 · answered by Oppna to tal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why love someone that don't love you? Unless you see in the future him returning your love, but when that does happen you are wasting time, energy, and yourself.
2007-02-15 10:53:34 · answer #10 · answered by smoothlova1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋