his guy is one of my best friends.he like me verymuch a he is wating for my approval since 4 yrs.i never felt nething for him but i don know y now a days i m thinking about him i have never gave him chance to show how he feel cause it was very difficult for me to face him.i told him not to talk much about it n b my same old friend only. but now i think i should give him atleast 1 chance to show how he feel for me cause i have never gave a thought that do i feel anything for him. i don know if i would b comfertable with him in relation like love cause i m very much comfertable with him in our FRIENDSHIP and i dont want to loos it any how.and there is one more thing that he takes very long to clear anything i mean it took him 2 yrs to say that he love me. he know me so well then also it took him 2 yrs.by looks we r not that much good mach but cause of our friendship i m thinking like that. if i don give him chance then everything will b the same for us.now what should i do?
2007-02-15 02:45:00 · 4 answers · asked by pank_ti 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you think you might have feelings for him, give it a chance my husband and I were friends for 7 years before we started dating and I couldn't be happier that we did. We know each others friends and have a lot of the same ideas. Your boyfriend/husband is supposed to be your best friend.
2007-02-15 02:54:50 · answer #1 · answered by cutie322434 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See this is a tricky situation. You don't wanna lose him nor accept him more than a friend. Thinking about him doesn't necessary makes you fall in love with him. If you are a true friend then tell him in all honesty what you fell, tell him he don't stand a chance but still he is the closest friend. May be he understands and if he doesn't let him go, after all as a true friend you shouldn't be hurting him.....be it today or tomorrow.
2007-02-15 10:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
feeling sorry for a guy is not a very gud foundation for a relationship. we can look upto a guy only when we admire him.ask urself this question, do you???secondly, if ur student, give urself time. concentrate on ur career and making ur own identity. nobody can take that away from you. ur family will help u chose THE guy, they are more experienced than us.all the best and cheer up! there are better n longer lasting things in life than love! girls have to be SMART to KEEP the guy interested in them. once a guy knows you are interested, he backs off.
2007-02-15 10:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you decide to give me a chance and it doesn't work that will probably be the end of you're friendship. You have to follow you're heart. Don't hook up just because that's what he wants to do. You are going to take a big risk, and if you already know you don't like him like that then you should just keep him as a friend.
2007-02-15 10:52:27 · answer #4 · answered by Shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋