Ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a long time and we always fight anymore it`s not like it used to be. I love him so much! We took a break and we both seen other people and now we are back together and all we do is fight. Because
1. He doesn`t pay attetion on the phone.
2. He hung up the phone w. me one night to talk to his ex that beeped in because she said that his step-brother was going to beat him up.
3. His ex instant messanged him saying why won`t you answer your phone. When it was really me on his screen name because he wanted me to check something.
4. She called again Monday and said the same thing and he called me mad and yelling. ( I told him it shouldn`t matter to him what she says because he has me now)
What the Hell is going on here? I don`t know what to think. He said that he was sorry but that`s all I can think about. He cheated on me in the past about 3 years ago and Iam pretty sure that he has learned his lesson but what am I supposed to think??
2007-02-15 02:52:52 · 15 answers · asked by Ashley J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have two choices:
1) You can continue to see him and ultimately book your spot on the Jerry Springer show.
2) Move on and grow up.
2007-02-15 02:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by Cdub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ex should go. Talk to the ex. Tell her you are dating him, not her. Now then, you should talk to your BF. And if that doesn't help, leave him. You're probably in a relationship all about him. You should be respected, loved and cherished. If you're stressed out about fighting, find a way so you both agree on the same things. If you don't, then you shouldn't be int this relationship.
2007-02-15 03:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by Selleniah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has learned a lesson alright. He learned that you will tolerate him no matter what he does and he has obviously continued to do what he pleases. He now thinks of you as the doormat he wipes his feet on after spending time with his ex. Leave him to his ex. You will be better off finding someone new who respects you and will treat you properly.
2007-02-15 02:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by fly guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-16 12:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by sanki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you might be feeling. But if you don't have trust in a relationship its best to end it or if you truly love him BOTH of you have to keep working hard on it, its not easy. He should be trying to earn your trust since he's the one who has cheated on you, what is he doing talking to his ex? Talk to him about it. If he really loves you he will give you the respect you deserve.
2007-02-15 03:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by miley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if all you do is fight then there is nothing left anymore and it is time to move on. Don't you want to be happy. There is more than one fish in the sea. let him go back with the ex. Then you can be happy knowing he is unhappy.
2007-02-15 02:59:14 · answer #6 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an unhealthy relationship to me. Seems to me he is keeping her handy, for a back up girlfriend if and when things fall through with you. You probably should step-up and take control of this and break it off with him.
2007-02-15 03:00:51 · answer #7 · answered by magnolia_76 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him right now. This is going no where. He is just cashing on your emotions. There is a lot more to explore.....realtionships are for being happy not being sad or grieving over them. Best of luck.
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2016-11-28 04:41:15 · answer #9 · answered by elias 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, if he cheated on you 3 years ago... you know what they say... once a cheater, always a cheater. right now this guy sounds like hes cheatin. i KNOW how you feel, but what you are sayin adds up to
1)hes cheatin on you
2)he has an obsessed ex
i personally hope the best for you, but your situation sounds like he's cheating....
2007-02-15 02:59:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋