So, I've had a crush on a woman for a long time now. We dated briefly several months ago and then stopped. We dated briefly for a couple of months, and then stopped. We still chat via text, which are often very flirtatious, and have the occasional lunch or dinner together. On those rare Saturday nights we see each other out we flirt like crazy, dance, I check out her *** & she stares down my shirt... The problem, however, is that she thinks I'm too young for her. I'm 29 and she is 35. I don't really see the problem. Even if I am a few years younger, I've had plenty of life experiences that age me well beyond my years. How do I make her see that I am really on her "level", and convince her to give me a shot?
2007-02-15 02:29:30 · 4 answers · asked by ca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A question right up my alley. I'm 19 and my girlfriend of over 2 years is 23 right now. It's a difficult thing to get by but she just needs to see how on her level you really are. Now, don't go acting at all different if you really are and don't keep begging to prove it, this and that. Just be a great guy to her and show her that no matter what, you're the best choice (at least for now). The age thing really bothered me and my girl but when given the oppurtunity, I was there for her when she needed me, and came to realize that although I may be young, I've got a great head on my shoulders and would be able to be a man that could take care of her. In a couple more years the age difference won't be near as noticable. It only sounds like a lot now because you're still in your twenties. Now, my life may not have been very eventfull, but I'm mature beyond my years, then again, the one I'm with can immature too sometimes. If she was willing to date you before, chances are she has some immature tendacies that you somehow fill, and you just need to the oppurtunity to show you're a man who can take care of the more mature things for her. Age ain't nothing but a number; it's all about the mind. Don't go forcing anything in a relationship, but take advantage of an oppurtunity. Sincere buttering up to make her happy helps things along a little, too.
2007-02-15 02:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by Danny K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient, it will come! I don't see the problem with the age difference, 6 years is nothing....unless of course you may want to have children. Her child bearing years are closing in on her, she MAY be considering that factor for you.
2007-02-15 02:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are to young for her, it's only a 6 year difference. Just talk to her and maybe she will understand.
2007-02-15 02:36:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is stop pushing --- let the relationship develop without putting labels on it --- if you are serious then waiting is not a problem --- doing that shows her you are serious and you are mature enough to wait and see what happens
2007-02-15 02:35:31 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋