OK Ther is this girl that lives with me she is my sister's friend and my mom let her move in. I have been talking to this guy for like two or three months and this skank thinks its perfetly fine for her to butt in on may lif. now they have been talking on the phone and they have went out all night and she diddnt come home in till like 5:00 in the morning and that skank thinks im gonna let her in my house at 5:00 AM. she is crazy she says they didnt do anything but you dont go to the lake all night and dont do any thing help what do i do?
2007-02-15 02:21:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Violence never solves anything and will just make things worse; get over it. This is not your little red wagon to pull and if you get into it with her about is it is going to only up the competition factor. If she is living with your family due to circumstances of her family not being able or willing to take care of her, she has abandonment issues and it is common that she will act out in every way possible to get everyone's attention as she is starved for it. She may not even like the guy at all; just the thrill of being "chosen" over someone else when her own family has rejected her.
You need to have a talk with your parents and it is up to them to lay down the law with some house rules and curfews; if this girl is a minor in their charge, not only are they setting a bad example for you and your sister, but they can be held criminally and civilly liable if something happens to this girl when she is out all night.
As for him and her, it takes two to tango and he made the choice to go out with her, so she is not soley to blame. If he was seeing you and took off with her, he is a skank too.
Next time don't let on that you like the guy and go on and on about a guy you could really care less about him she may hone in on him as a target and really think she is "winning" something from you when she is not.
2007-02-15 22:14:57 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋