he was single for 6 months before i met him and nothing happend between them in this time.
2007-02-15 00:59:24 · 16 answers · asked by beth w 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honestly... guys are demented aren't they!!!??? what on earth would have given him the impression you would actually want to know this little tit bit of information?
The fact that chooses to tell you something like this tells me he's a jerk... that or his guilty of something more than just a dream.
It's not worth the stress and wonder you're going to feel everytime he's at work with her - it's been a month i say cut him loose and move on - you deserve better. Unless of course it's all innocent and he's just a bit of an oversharer - in which case maybe just let him know your not interested in hearing about his dreams with other girls - maybe tell about a little dream you had about his best mate ;-)
2007-02-15 01:09:34 · answer #1 · answered by StockRdHappy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Studies prove people who have the most active fantasy lives have the most active sex lives too. Fantacyt is the one affiar you can afforfd to have and probably should.
Everybody fantasize about somebody whom you know or heard. Its quite normal. You seem to fantasize on your co-worker may be because you either fancy him or becouse you do see him a lot at work. No harm!
Top 5 female fantasies:
1. A previous partner or anticipatory sexual experience with the current one.
2. Sex with a man other than your current pertner (seducing a male friend or a friend's partner is a favourite)
3. Sex with a woman
4. Sex with a colleague (this is your case)
5. A threesome with two menk, both fighting over your body.
TOP 5 Male fantasies:
1. A previous or anticipatory sexual experience with current one.
2. A threesome with two women -first watching them having sex, and then joining in.
3. Sex wih a woman other than a current partner (the ultimate: sex with a celeb in front of his friends)
4. Anonymous, spontaneous sex with a omplete stranger
5. A group with a multitude of women queuing up to give him oral sex.
To conclude, your bf is absolutely normal and this is an affair he can not only have but also should have to spice up your sex life with you. But let it remain there!
You too have yours. But keep your secrets to yourselves. Do not ask him his and do not tell him yours. This spices up your sex life.
He is denting your relationship by telling you. Thats not healthy, at all.
All the best!
2007-02-15 01:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by Ebby 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would first off start by saying you should beproud of him for being honest with you about theses dreams ask yourself how do you compare yourself to her look alike? act or dress alike? if that is the case then he may be with you due to not being able to be with her then second does he wanna be with her or just a fantasy? is it something that she has said or hinted about ie liking something sexually that you dont do? or havent tried well once you answer these questions then you need to ask do you wanna stay with him or no? oncew you can answer these questions then you will be a lot happier enjoy
2007-02-15 01:05:58 · answer #3 · answered by Mark R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he shouldn't be talling you about this. no-one can help their dreams but he's trying to make you jealous. I think he's a control freak..get out before you get hurt. it's only been a month and it's too soon to talk of dreams. he's not cheating on you cos anyone mature who see through his games
2007-02-15 01:50:03 · answer #4 · answered by minerva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys have dreams about other women, but most of use are smart enough not to tell are wives or girl friends. What was he thinking? I don't think you should worry about it just let him know your not interested in hearing about his dreams when they involve another woman.
2007-02-15 01:11:11 · answer #5 · answered by HOOGIE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a loser. He's trying to get a rise out of you. Dump him and see how he acts then. Then you'll know what's really going on. $10 says he's dating the chick he works with the same day you dump him. ;)
2007-02-15 01:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by Gasman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes of course it does. Maybe nothing happened because the other girl did not want it, but it sounds like he does, which in my opinion means another one will come along and maybe she will say yes and it will happen,Get rid, you deserve better than him
2007-02-15 01:10:43 · answer #7 · answered by Janet C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it means a lot he played you for a fool why talk about other woman when your on his side.
if this women on his dreams really bother him why not tell him to go for it theres a lot of men there who will dream nothing but you
2007-02-15 01:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no You shouldn't worry about it.
If i had to worry about half the dreams ive had then id probably have gone mad.
Dreams are just your subconsious switching off after the day.
so relax dont worry about it and have some fun with him the next time her dreams about her.
2007-02-15 01:04:47 · answer #9 · answered by cindy l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends what type of dreams. if they are just harmless dreams because he has seen her n the day at work then i wouldnt worry but if they are erm... kinda rudey dreams then i still wouldnt worry too much as dreams are only illusions in our sleep.
2007-02-15 01:03:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋