I have been casually dating a guy for 2 months. We go out 2 dinner every now and then or 2 the beach at night or 2 my house 2 watch a movie. We don't speak everyday but will send each other a little text message or something. He and I have both just gotten out of long term relationships and he has said he doesn't want to move too fast at one point. So I keep my distance and play it cool. I try not to ask him out but he always asks me 2 go out at least once a week when we are not busy.(we are adults) Problem is,he made no mention of spending time together on V.day. He sent me a Happy Vday text in the a.m. and that was it. I'm not romantic and didn't expect anything but figured he might have wanted to at least see each other. Does this mean he is not really into me or what? Neither one of us have ever really spoken about our feelings toward one another but it is clear that I like him. He is going out of town this weekend and has said he wants 2 see me before he leaves so why not Vday?
2007-02-15 00:59:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHY. VALS IS OVER BUT THE ANSWER IS NO
2007-02-15 01:03:56 · answer #1 · answered by Kwadwo B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems right now you have a special friendship with him, but that neither of you would call it a romantic thing -yet anyway. I would relax a bit. He has already said he's taking this slow. At least he acknowledged V-Day. What matters is how the relationship is progressing. V-day is just a day. He wants to see you before he leaves, that's what I would focus on.
2007-02-15 01:07:41 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To some, Valentine's Day is just another day. You are only 2 months into the relationship and that is with occasional dating. Give it time and you may find everyday becomes Valentine's Day.
2007-02-15 01:06:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her to a semi-expert musical play - all cities have them. All love being in objective audience with stay music, making a music and dancing and that's unique and consistently romantic. in case you haven't any longer considered the action picture, Dreamgirls, take her - it is unique. interesting the soul is lasting. flora, candy and stupid filled animals are shallow. till that's a Vermont Teddy undergo - this is particular.
2016-12-17 10:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say be busy and dont' let him get in touch with you before he leaves........let him chase you to show he's interested.... taking it slow is one thing.
He should have wanted to see you on Valentines, but he did think of you and sent you a text. I wonder if he had other plans and does the same with other girls as well. Is that ok with you?
2007-02-15 01:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if you haven't put your feelings out in the open, why should he have seen you? You should express the way you feel, becasue you are not committed and he is not obligated to see you everyday.
2007-02-15 01:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both need to communicate without that you cant have a realtionship.. tell him how your feeling.. he'll respect you for teeling him and hopefully he'll tell you how he feels too!. as for the vday issue i wouldnt take it too seriously.. he told you himself that he wasnt ready to rush into anythng.. so just respect that and talk to him about it! :)
2007-02-15 01:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
easy there
you are just friends enjoying time together and that is fine
you have lots of time for feelings and love
take it slow and just enjoy getting to know each other
2007-02-15 01:03:48 · answer #8 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that he just dont want to move to a relationship to fast so aske him why he didnt i think it is nothing but if your worried about it they ask him yourself
2007-02-15 01:10:41 · answer #9 · answered by sarah_see_123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is spending time with someone else too
2007-02-15 01:03:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋