we were good friends but my mother told me never let a man come between your friend ship and so wat should i do . dump him and keep my friend or dump both
2007-02-15 00:58:26 · 26 answers · asked by zapprah s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
leave both
2007-02-15 01:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah its true...dont let a man come between a friendship but in this case...She f*cked your man so that changes everything! This isnt something small that you can look past. Obviously there was no friendship in her eyes if she had the guts to do that. Thats straight up disrespect!! You cant even call her a "Friend". That would make me think that she was probably checkin out my man the whole time and the same goes for him too!
Before two ppl even get to the point of sleeping together there has to be things that lead up to that. whether its flirting or looking or whatever but they just didnt happen to sleep together. im sure they kissed or whatever the hell first so that was enough time for them to do a "Reality check" but they chose not to and still went and slept together which means that you werent important enough to them that they couldnt even control themselves or even stop to think about what they were doing!! and i dont even wanna hear the "I was drunk" crap! Thats a lame A$$ excuse!
Personally i would beat the living daylights out of both of em and then dump both. How could you ever trust any of them again!?!? You dont need any of that in your life so get rid of it but if you choose to continue your friendship or your relationship it will not be the same. You are going to feel awkward and from time to time resentment. Good luck!
2007-02-15 01:15:18 · answer #2 · answered by Yari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes ok, I would be very angry. But I don't know if I myself would be able to confront them right away. I think I would wait a short period of time to see if they will come forth and tell me. Then if they didn't come forth, they think that you don't know and they don't have the guts to come and tell you.
I don't know if i would dump him or dump both. It's a hard decision to make unless you are in those shoes. You have to come to your own conclusion, hear both sides of the story, his and hers and do what you think is best for you.
Sometimes your best friends are great to have around, but at other times, they may not be. If your best friend is someone that doesn't care for you and she sleeps with your boyfriend behind your back, then maybe she's not such a BEST-friend after all.
2007-02-15 01:04:23 · answer #3 · answered by newf_chick_1987 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump both... she is not a good friend if she did that to you. When your mom said never lose a friend, i believe that as well. That pertains if you both like the same person, or if somone your friend likes or is interested in stay away. I haver had instances like that, and partners come and go but friends dont. She crossed the boundary of friendship and trust, and i cant envision you wanting to share your inner feelings with someone like her.
2007-02-15 01:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by hank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is okfor friends to share so... why not have a 3 way tail party and after you screw em both like they screwed you the score will be tied and if your friend is going to be a 2 bit ho you need to slap the shitz outta her and dump the dude but.... they will be scewing ever so heavily then and you will be all alone so you cant win this one mqybe go after her ex or her brother or father as for the guy let all your gfs know that he is a minute man and you have to do it yourself cause hes to fast in bed and if that dont work you need to call 911
2007-02-15 01:09:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what kind of friend is she if she slept with your man? I wouldn't deal with either one of them. They both can't be trusted. You shouldn't let a man come between your friendship, but that went out the window when your man was between your friend's legs. Find a true friend, and a man who deserves you.
2007-02-15 01:03:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump them both, none are worth keeping.
2007-02-15 01:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump both they are both no good if they did that to you
2007-02-15 01:51:50 · answer #8 · answered by Tamalee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump them both.
2007-02-15 01:05:16 · answer #9 · answered by ♥DRV♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Luckily I dont have a best friend :-) But hey you should leave both. Once a cheat always a cheat! Forgive them yeah, but leave then they can be together! You will always be paranoid if you keep either one around.
2007-02-15 01:10:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Dump both. She´s never was your friend and he never loved you so much....You deserve more...
2007-02-15 01:09:26 · answer #11 · answered by Fábioelf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋