me and my boyfriend are always fussing and breaking up. we have our happy days sometimes. people are always telling me things about him and when i ask he say no and get mad cause i dont believe him so he break up with me. yes i think he love me but i am getting tired of all these ups and downs every single day. we might have 1or 2 days out of the week with out fussing
2007-02-15 01:06:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
both of you need to grow up
2007-02-15 01:10:49 · answer #1 · answered by hiding1959 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me and my bf have alot of fussing going on also, but we never actually get to the point to where we break up. That doesnt sound too healthy to me. You say..you 'think' he loves you...then you should just move on before it gets any harder to. You can find someone that will sit and talk with you when you have your arguments and work things out instead of automatically breaking up all the time. Soo I suggest next time you guys break up...surprise him and make it for good! Dont call him or answer his calls...dont go to see him, nothing! Just forget about him and move on...its the best thing for your future. You must think about your future! Hope this helped a lil...
Good Luck!
2007-02-15 09:14:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a friend that is going through a similar case as yours. in my opinion, its best both take a time out and think of where is the relationship going and is it for a better cause or for worse. think about it. its no use fussing over something that is not worth the time.
2007-02-15 09:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by S.T. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go away somewhere with him (hotel, nice restaraunt, etc). laugh together and enjoy eachothers company. then when the good time is over make everything serious and tell him and you don't want the good times between you 2 to become extinct. that you love him a lot and if you both put in effort then things can be patched up. but you both have to work it out and learn how to COMMUNICATE!!
2007-02-15 09:14:17 · answer #4 · answered by destiney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of you should alienate yourself from one another for at least 30 days. It sounds as though one of you enjoys the drama. My guess is that it's a little of both because if the "ups and downs" were so horrible you would have been long gone by now.
2007-02-15 09:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by Snow Plow 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
life is too short - sort it out or cut your losses put it down to experience and move on.
maybe try to salvage a good friendship out it? a lot of the time thats all people work as, no matter how much they love eachother.
2007-02-15 09:11:25 · answer #6 · answered by StockRdHappy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, let it go. Concentrate on your school work, become a smart person and then you can figure these kinds of things out like a mature, independent woman should.
2007-02-15 09:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having these quarrels now, then it definitely won't work years down the road. Bite the bullet and move on to someone that will appreciate you.
2007-02-15 09:09:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You all behave and get along or shake hands and depart ways. I think a lot of couples, friends ,ect... don't get along because they choose not to. If one of the other chooses not to stop then it is doomed. Examine that one.
2007-02-15 09:13:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No relationship should be so dramatic and childish.
Unless you're both actors, or child actors at that.
2007-02-15 09:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by Karen? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋