Complicated situation? please answer?

Question

I have worked with this guy for a year and lately I have gotten to know him more and now I have feelings for him. My problem is should I tell him? If this was any other situation, I wouldnt be questioning, but I'm afriad if he does not feel the same, he wont want to speak to me anymore and then it will be awkward and I lost someone completely that I care about. Hes kinda shy but friendly. I've actually had him ask me questions about my age and w/e to maybe see if I care about the age difference between us which I dont. He is 18 and I am 20. I am kinda sure he might like me but what are some really obvious signs. I know I sound like a teenager and I wouldnt be asking this if I didnt work with him

by the way its a part time job for both of us and dating is allowed.

before you ask, yes he is definately single

Answer 1

I hope you won't ask him first ~ let him to ask you first. Yeah, this may sound conservative but think again ~ do you want to hear a disappointing answer from him? If no, let's just let him to start first ~ that's the best thing a girl can do.


If both of you are meant to be, then someday fate will bring you there ~ be patient, he might need some time to think or to act -- just wait, it's worthwhile! :)

Answer 2

If I were you I would hint around and see how he would feel about the 2 of you dating, and if he felt OK, then I would ask him out and go for it...some signs might be, flirting, staring, touching alot, asking questions about personal things.

Answer 3

If the genders were reversed, you would probably
say "Well, you should just ask her out for a date."

Well ... you should just ask him out for a date.
Yes, he could say "no", but it isn't the end of the
world.

No, it doesn't need to be anything big - maybe
just coffee after work.

The world goes merrily on.

Answer 4

Well may be he is shy! Lead him on and see how it develope. If possitively, tell him, eventually.

All the best!/