Okay, i didn't get any phone call from my bf last night, but i did call him like 3 different times. I had gotten no answer. I was waiting around all day till 8:30 pm last night for his call, and i got nothing! So i thought i would call my boyfriend. It was so sad, he didn't even pick up nor answer his cell phone.
So...i dunno. i did leave him a message!
Do you think that there is something going on???
I really think that he wouldn't cheat on me and go with a nother girl out to dinner. Maybe he didn't pick up cuz of he was out with his family or his friends.
What do you think?
-me and him sure DIDN'T break up...i know this cuz he loves me-
2007-02-15 01:04:26 · 18 answers · asked by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
True, it doesn't look very promising I have to say. If my b/f treated me that way on Valentines day I'd have alarm bells going off too....Follow this link & do the test.....
http://quiz.ivillage.co.uk/uk_relationships/tests/cheater.htm
good luck
Don't read too much into things until you're sure though
2007-02-15 01:10:08 · answer #1 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Morning. I want to apologize for how you were treated. That was completly wrong. I'm not the type of person to tell you what to do, but I will tell you how I would handle this current situation. If I were dating someone and on Valentine's Day I didn't receive as much as a phone call, I would be pretty upset with him. I wouldn't be able to buy any story that he tells me because I called him 3 times earlier that day and at 8:30 pm he still didn't answer. I may not want to think that he may be out with another girl but I would have to think about that being an option. I would also have to think about how long we have been together, whether or not we have had this issue before. I don't know the full extent of your situation so I can't give you a full frontal as to what I would do. I hope this helps some.
Take Care.
2007-02-15 01:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by Tasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi!
Your matter is really a serious one. If he loves you then he should have called you back if he was not at home or his cell was not with him. He did get your SMS which you sent to him. That is the question that makes me think that he is either pretending to be too busy to talk to you or playing with you.
You better ask him by contacting him again. Here you will get only roughly ideas. Even your own statement "me and him sure DIDN'T break up...i know this cuz he loves me-" makes me think that you two love each other TRULY... I say again TRULY? May be from your side but if he is also being loyal to you... who knows it?
Moreover, don't try to judge him or anybody so easily. He might have been in some bad mood or tensions and so could not find himself feel like talking to you or to anybody else.
But if he loves you then he should feel your need around him when he is in tensions and is not feeling like doing anything... I am serious my friend. Just be careful and "wait and see."
Wish you all the best!
2007-02-15 01:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was very rude of him to not answer the phone. Ok, so if he had a genuine reason and was busy then he could have at least sent you a quick text message saying hes busy.
To think hes having an affair is a step too far but i would want an explation for why he ignored you all day.
2007-02-15 01:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by Flower Power 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your name and the way your acting I would say that he has you right where he wants you. Stop getting so worked up. Find out why he didn't call. It better be good, I would not have done that to my gf in school who is my wife now if we were apart on V-day. You sound young and if he is not taking the relationship seriously then maybe you should consider other options.
2007-02-15 01:16:33 · answer #5 · answered by V-Man the Tinknocker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He should have atleast called once even if he was out with family or friends. I just see what happens today when he calls. If he has a good explaination then forgive, but if the explanation sounds a bit fishy I wouldn't call him your boyfriend anymore.
2007-02-15 01:22:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time you see him just tell him: "You know, when you didn't call me on Valentines Day I felt a little hurt, especially when you didn't call me back after I called you. Are we still boyfriend/girlfriend?" If he truly still wants to be with you, he will care about your feelings and will explain himself fully. If he waffles - like starts saying "oh, no, nothing's wrong..." but doesn't say what he was doing or why he didn't call you back, then that's a red flag.
2007-02-15 01:14:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't call on Valentines? Hello? Are you a real Blonde? `Cause you're damn sure thinking like one. Come on, Ma'am, Get on with your Life. You are nuttin' but someone to jump on. Be better than him. Give yourself some respect. `Cause he doesn't have any for you. Good Luck!
2007-02-15 01:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is not a problem.
That is a neurotic overreaction.
A problem is something that happens or creates a negative situation. Creating drama is not a problem.
Wait and talk to him, and I'm sure everything is just fine.
2007-02-15 01:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by Karen? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, maybe something came up and he couldn't do anything to cancel it. If you're sure of his love maybe just go and pay him a visit and tell him you were worried.
2007-02-15 01:17:01 · answer #10 · answered by teen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋