Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

I just don;t know whats wrong with me. I was complainin that my hubby does not want me and when he wants me, I don;t enjoy sex with him. I start to wonder is it me. He is great husband always loving trying to understand me and always care about what I say to him. I love him but why I do not enjoy.. its only him that I have felt that way

2007-02-15 07:15:02 · 14 answers · asked by wonder 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do I go about finding a birth mothers name in Texas......Adopted parents are deceased and would not tell me and all documents destroyed.....Any ideas?

2007-02-15 07:14:57 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my best friend is 22 and still lives with her parents. like 3 weeks ago she got a boyfriend who is really amazing and they have been going out a lot. well her parents dont like this and are mad at her. they think she needs to spend more time at home with them. its making her really stressed out. she wants to move out but she cant afford to buy her own place. what can i say to her to make her feel better about it?

2007-02-15 07:14:30 · 7 answers · asked by christine 3 in Friends

Would u survive a couple of month not 2 touch or kiss the lady u are simply In LOVE with?

how 'bout
she wants him 2 actually get to know her better..before doing anything she wants him 2 feel..
not touch her or kiss her because she looks beautiful tonight.
but simply because his in love.

would u?

2007-02-15 07:13:53 · 11 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 4 in Singles & Dating

Asked this before=only one response.
Do some guys prefer to give shorter french kisses to their gf and less often.
Do they perhaps enjoy hugging more??
What does that mean?

2007-02-15 07:13:46 · 6 answers · asked by Patricia 4 in Singles & Dating

My bf cheated on me again......and i kind of expected it to happen. But everyday he e-mails me and tells me forgive me, give me another chance............and i did but a good friend said that i should think about it again that he may do it again just so he can have attention to himself. and another good friend said if i do give him another chance i have to realize to that my heart can get broken. Now what should i do, should i give him another chance?, or do i just move on?

2007-02-15 07:13:37 · 13 answers · asked by munchy_101 2 in Singles & Dating

I get confused by some of the responses to my questions. Being friends with a member of the opposite sex doesn't mean I want to cheat on my spouse. I'm perfectly capable of being friends with men and not letting it go too far. I don't have a problem with it, maybe other people do. Should I have to give up my friend because he has a girlfriend? Shouldn't it be up to him and not just his girlfriend? Especially when you have known someone for years and the relationship is completely platonic.

2007-02-15 07:13:01 · 7 answers · asked by Cherrybomb 1 in Singles & Dating

he says he is not "Ready" but he tells me we have the same goal here......to spend the rest of our lives together. He tells me he is totally devoted to me and all the other good stuff. I just want him to ask me. We can wait a couple of years to actually tie the knot. I feel myself getting depressed over this.

2007-02-15 07:12:18 · 27 answers · asked by hollybarry08 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OKAY.... So there's this guy who likes me (we're both 13) and I don't like him back. I guess I just like to be liked. Does that make sense? Anyway, he is really shy, so he won't ask me to dance at any of our school dances. I can just tell he likes me, don't ask me how--it's a girl's intuition. So, I don't like him, but for some reason, I keep flirting with him. I don't know why I am, because I don't like him, and we're not going to the same high school next year, so it's not like I'm going to be seeing him again. Am I being really mean to flirt with him if I'm not interested? I just want some advice. No rude words please.

2007-02-15 07:11:59 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it true u could tell when your having sex?? how could u tell?

2007-02-15 07:11:30 · 7 answers · asked by chikita9 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was telling a male friend of mine about a date I had last week. He told me 'You don't have to expalin yourself to me' 'I don't mind if you do though'

What do you think he means by that?!

2007-02-15 07:10:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The girl that I like stars in this question and these old past questions!

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AjKDQXKNzybk0GZcWuKA73Tsy6IX?qid=20070118114631AAWCRzM

and

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AugdA4vULsSJbyFXkMoL0g3sy6IX?qid=20070208155953AAdoYPn

was laughing at me when I was getting the sh*t knocked out of me(not punches just the playin around but serious kind) from the kids that at my school are the kids who cause the trouble. All that I got out of it was a sore right leg, but no bumps or bruises. And tomorrow the candygrams are going to be sent out (it would've been today but I got a snowday (I live in Michigan)) and I'm 100% sure she doesn't know I even sent one to anyone. So what I'm tryin to ask is that is it normal for a hot blonde to be laughing at you when you are getting knocked to the ground? And two other last comments, first, I don't cause any serious trouble, the worst thing that I ever did at my school that a lot

2007-02-15 07:10:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 07:10:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WOMEN ONLY!!! What would you do? Was I to harsh? My Husband, mother in law, & I were all in the livingroom. My MIL (mother in law) told my husband our daughter is not his...that supposedly I told her sisters/nieces 2 1/2 years ago when I was pregnant that he wasn't the father. Lie #1. Then she told him while she sits on the couch i call my sons dad everyday & tell him I love him in front of her. LIE #2. Then she tells me she hates my son. Then she tells me & my husband she has been trying for the past 2 years to get divorced. Then she says she sits there while I talk to her sisters/nieces asking them ?s about her & I talk about her. LIE #3. Then she says my son is a brat, is no good, & says he kicks her bed each morning just to wake her up.LIE #4. What would you do? How would you react? I told her she had to leave. Yes I kicked her A** out. My husbands reaction was "she was mad and said it all out of anger". But why would a grown women bring her grand daughter in all this?

2007-02-15 07:10:00 · 18 answers · asked by { Me } 2 in Family

I know I asked this earlier and got alot of good answers. Thought I should add some more detail.

Everything was going fine, then monday she told me that she wanted some time to think. She got out of a 7 year abusive realationship mid last year. We started dating about 6-8 months after that.

Does she realy just need some time or is there no chance in hell of us getting back together.

Just curios on what I should do or not do.

Thanks for the help

She told me she couldn't wait for Valentines day cause she hasn't had a good one. Everything was good last week, she was excited and couldn't wait to see what I got her. Well As I said above we broke up monday.

Also was it a good move to go ahead and send her flowers on valentines day.

When would be a good time to ask her if she ready to start dating again, (if she wants).

2007-02-15 07:09:41 · 6 answers · asked by striderknight2000 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 07:09:29 · 46 answers · asked by 1josh2010 1 in Singles & Dating

Don't get me wrong, I know that there is more to a man than how much money he has, but a the same token im use to being treated a certain way, and I feel that i would be settling for less if i date a man who isn't capable of treating me the way that i want to be treated.

2007-02-15 07:08:49 · 9 answers · asked by beauty queeen 2 in Singles & Dating

In my opinion I don't think it is a good idea because u r buying time to talk to a girl and it shouldn't be like that unless your rich and have alot of money to waste.

2007-02-15 07:08:37 · 5 answers · asked by DVD 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok, a friend of mine is on the lookout for a man, she's just turned 40, it's all she thinks about. I'm married with a daughter. The other day she was running through the latest list of people who were interested in her, I thought one of them sounded okay, she then said, I can't ,he's sooo not my type, I just couldn't ,he looks like Andy. (Andy is my husband). I'm not bothered if she doesn't find my husband attractive, because I do, he's perfect for me. I just don't know why she would say it like that.

2007-02-15 07:08:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been talking to this guy romantically off and on for years..and as I started to question where our friendship was going, which I sent him a text and asked him where are we going from here...he then stated that he wanted to talk over dinner about this subject and he was glad i asked. From there he didnt call me for over two weeks, so i assumed he was bluffing. He then called me and said that his upset roomate stole his phone and he had to wait for his bill to come in to get my number....but i completely ignored him after that text (he nevered called, just texted me this information) for over 2 months because he knows where i live and could have visited if this really bothered him. So on valentine's day he found me on myspace and asked if we could be friends again and still wants to talk, hopes i am not mad at him.....what should i do?! really....I think i should keep it moving.

2007-02-15 07:07:53 · 5 answers · asked by msconfused 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 07:07:53 · 16 answers · asked by Candy 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been together for 12 1/2 years, but I seem to love him more now than I did or thought possible, when we first got married. Is it possible to feel that in tune with someone when you already have a great connection?

2007-02-15 07:07:29 · 10 answers · asked by Tee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

a real gentlemen likes me a lot... he's very successfull, well mannered... and a lot of girls in their twenties likes him... i don't really like him yet but is a possibility... here's the problem he's 61... what should i do??? what would you think if you saw us in public together???

2007-02-15 07:06:01 · 78 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I saw him in a store about 4/5 months ago, but I was with my boyfriend and really couldn't talk to him, I want to see how he is and be able to hang out with him again...I've searched everywhere, even Criminal records! What do I have to do to find him?

2007-02-15 07:05:56 · 6 answers · asked by kells120702 1 in Friends

For about two years now, my heart does not feel the same for my husband. The history that we have together has made several scars on my heart and some wounds are still open. I constantly tell my husband that I want a divorce, that I hate him , and I no longer love him. He still sticks around and just states that I'm mad. I have had some serious talks with him about how I feel, but he states that he will change his ways. This marriage has worn me out and it is getting me literally sick. I try to keep the peace between us, but it is very hard when I get treated like a slave and like of object. He has no respect for me what so ever and he feels that I should always jump when he says so. I just want him out of my life completely along with his family. There has been nothing but problems with them all and he seems not to grow up and be man/husband. I have three kids with him, but I have raised these children all by self. I want my life back along with peace, and I want out forever.

2007-02-15 07:04:32 · 27 answers · asked by blind 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've not spoken to my close female friend for 2 months as we got to close.I told her that I wanted no contact so that I could get over my feelings for her. She only wanted to be friends.

I've tried to get bck in touch as I've got over her now and I'm interested in another girl.I've apologised if I wasn't tactful in the way I said I wanted no contact for awhile

She's txt bck:i really do not have the energy to keep explaining things to you.I will be civil but i'm afraid i feel the close friendship is lost...........

Why she like this - she wanted to be friends?

All lost?

Seeing her on Friday-said she'll be civil.Advice on how to cope?

p.s. her comment of not having energy to keep explaining things to me is when she didn't want to further than friends---THAT WAS 3 MONTHS AGO!!!

HOW WILL SHE FEEL SEEING ME ON FRIDAY???

2007-02-15 07:04:18 · 6 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Singles & Dating

One of my good friend just recently broke up with her boyfriend. She's 22 years old, and he's 38. They knew each other for 2 years, but were together for only 3 months or so. After breaking up, her ex-boyfriend still had keys to her apartment and paid her a visit while she was with another guy. There was a bolt lock on the door, but he managed to cut it. He walked in on her having sex with her new boyfriend, and he just went psycho.

This is what he did:
He created an email address using her name, so that he can send out emails pretending he's her. He got some obscene pictures taken of the two of them when they were together, and he attached it the email. The email also included a message soliciting sex for money. He then sent this email to all the people that was on her MSN buddylist. The people on that list includes her customers (from her past employment as a sales for computer parts). The list also includes past and present colleagues. He also sent the email to her family.

2007-02-15 07:04:08 · 10 answers · asked by Ayeee 2 in Singles & Dating

I know the rule about dating co-workers, I've been there and done that. However, I am about to quit and move on to a different job.

There is this guy at work that I'm very attracted to. We talk and share stories, but he doesn't seem that he ever wants to ask me out. As soon as it's time to go home, he bolts for the door and I don't have a chance to talk to him after work. Another co-worker approached me a few days ago (out of nowhere) and had said that he likes me, and put a little heart to her chest as she said so.

He has a bunch of guy buddies that he mostly hangs out with at work, and I thought that maybe that could have something to do with him showing a lack of interest in taking our friendship outside of work, but maybe he's just not interested in me that way...

I'm confused about what I should do, or if I should even do anything. I'm completely shy and it would be leaps and bounds for me to approach him and ask him out on a date, plus that's his job right? haha

I need advise

2007-02-15 07:03:29 · 14 answers · asked by Chibi 2 in Singles & Dating

So,

You meet a girl that has been giving it away for free to all her boyfriends. She tells you the past don't count and that you are special and this relationship is more than just sex.

Does special mean you get to pay all the bills and you don't get laid?

2007-02-15 07:02:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-15 07:02:22 · 13 answers · asked by angel 6 in Singles & Dating