Don't get me wrong, I know that there is more to a man than how much money he has, but a the same token im use to being treated a certain way, and I feel that i would be settling for less if i date a man who isn't capable of treating me the way that i want to be treated.
2007-02-15 07:08:49 · 9 answers · asked by beauty queeen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think that's wrong, financial stability is very important in a relationship, you don't want someone that's going to be constantly begging money off of you.
You know how you want to be treated, and thus you wouldn't be happy unless they treated you that way, so find yourself a man who has the same idea.
2007-02-15 07:13:46 · answer #1 · answered by static_nerdling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really do know what you are getting at. It really doesn't matter how much money he has, but if you feel you are not being treated the way you want to be or are use to, you really should move on. Just a thought , if you feel he is worth it. Maybe in the future, will he be making more money, or could you encourage him to do other things to gain more money? Good Luck to you if there is no flags going up you just maybe able to get through.
2007-02-15 15:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by Icey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with judging a guy based on that, I do it myself. Its not to say you're a golddigger or anything. That's just reassurance that if you go out to eat or something, you're not paying for both of you all the time. and if anything happens, he's got your back. I'd rather think about 50/50, than nothing on his part and everything on you.
2007-02-15 15:14:00 · answer #3 · answered by carrie r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to have standards. and if you don't want to date a man that makes less than what you want, you really don't need to post it to yahoo answers for justification.
just be aware that men with money don't always make you happy... and you could wind up with one that leaves you for another woman ;)
that's why you can't put a price tag on the man you are going to be with... instead look for attributes such as education and ambition.
2007-02-15 15:14:30 · answer #4 · answered by joy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Withh all that, you just basically said that it DOES matter how much money he has. If he's a nice guy and treats you good when you are together, then it shouldn't matter if he has money or not.
2007-02-15 15:14:35 · answer #5 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now I aint saying she's a Gold Digger........but she aint messin with no broke N*ggas.
2007-02-15 15:13:18 · answer #6 · answered by RedEye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you understand that he owns you it's fine.
2007-02-15 15:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how good you look if you want to be vain about it.
2007-02-15 15:11:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
can we say shallow?
2007-02-15 15:12:54 · answer #9 · answered by Thunderman9 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋