My hubby had an affair, says it meant nothing, that it was cuz he wasnt happy, our marriage was failing to say the least, the sex at home was non existance, so he found someone to give it to him. Anyway, it eats me up wondering if he got the same sexual fullfillment from her as he does from me. Do men look at it as just a 'nut' when they are cheating? There IS a difference between 'just sex' and making love and yes, I think men, inlcuding my husband have the ability to know the difference. Do you think he had that "total connection" with her as me and him have when we are in bed. I just wonder, he says he didnt, it was just simple sex, to fullfill a need, and that sex is better as a whole with me, even on a bad day than it ever was with her. He says that he never had that emotional intimate connection with her that he gets with me and I was just wondering if you all think he could be telling me truth?
2007-02-15
06:36:18
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