Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

i was with someone for almost 3 years, we were basically almost engaged, got my heart broken badly, but i still have feelings for her, even though she backstabbed me over and over again... i kno its stupid of me to still care, but the truth of it is that i do care, any suggestions for how i can help myself to stop caring... i have been talkin to other girls, and going out with friends, but i still care about her, and i wish id just stop.... can anyone give sound reasonable advice?

2007-02-15 06:35:56 · 14 answers · asked by Paul S 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months on and off. I have already said my "I Love You's" because I truly do. He says he will say it when the time is right. Personally, I don't think he ever will. What do u suggest?

2007-02-15 06:33:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 06:33:57 · 9 answers · asked by baby_rost 3 in Singles & Dating

I heard from first of the year to now is when a lot of couples split up!

2007-02-15 06:33:19 · 19 answers · asked by bigh5586 2 in Marriage & Divorce

At first it was fun making him chase me around . But now i think im begining to fall for him. Yes we are attracted to each other alot.There is so much spark and chemistry between us. I must admit it is really hard to resist temptation at times. But i always knew lust is not the only thing i wanted in a relationship. So i said no to Sex with him. Surprisingly he still stayed with me. Its super amazing how he holds me tight and kisses me there is so much passion to his touch. When he is around me he is like a lost baby and all he wants to do is look into my eyes and give me hugs. And when he is away he behaves he is in control over his feelings. He never speaks about his feelings towards me. And thats what I want to hear.. Am asking for to much? Im not sure what he really wants? I think im confused

2007-02-15 06:33:13 · 13 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Singles & Dating

i have two small kiddos that i have to get ready for daycare also should i just give them away?jk lol

2007-02-15 06:32:58 · 5 answers · asked by I love dooneys 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend loves me, but i don't....i would just want to keep it as we are today.....just friends...do ya'll think i should give him a chance?

2007-02-15 06:32:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i know this chick that i just met not too long ago...we met b/c she approached me at the beginning...we talk now and ive met her a couple of times..shes always tryin to make plans w/ me but cause she really wants to hangout but so far she has backed out everytime.. she has backed out like 3-4 times now, although one of the times was kind of my fault. should i still try to make plans w/ her, or is she playin games?i mean its not like we havent already met...if she had no interest she would have stopped meeting up after the first time right?plz help.

2007-02-15 06:32:14 · 1 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Singles & Dating

Approximately how long does it take for a guy to realize he has gone from like a little, like a lot, to love?? of a woman.
Do women fall in love faster?

2007-02-15 06:31:49 · 11 answers · asked by Patricia 4 in Singles & Dating

I think my question is pretty self explanitory. I'm well educated, I'm athletic, i'm straight I think I'm alright looking and I'm not fat or anything like that.

Why can't I get a date? I mean in my whole life, I've had one boyfriend and he well.....was more feminine then me.

I'm curious really, why do guys avoid me? Why can't I get a date from anyone. I'm shy i'm not too bold and I'm not all slutty or anything. Infact my picture if the most make up I have ever worn in my life.

Can anyone help me out?

2007-02-15 06:30:32 · 9 answers · asked by toronto_leafs 4 in Singles & Dating

i got engaged yesterday YAY~!! and now we are planning about where we gonna move and about buyin furniture. We will get marry pretty soon for autumn. Is this the right way to plan things?

2007-02-15 06:30:18 · 17 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Weddings

this girl tht me and my friend like is coming over 2 sled with us. She likes us both as friends but the problem is tht she likes him more and is more capable 2 sled with him more then me. wut should i do?

2007-02-15 06:30:18 · 11 answers · asked by hispanicpower123 1 in Singles & Dating

im talking to this one guy that has a family, u see this couple lived with me a year ago and they came to visit me like 2months ago and since then im talking to the guy and i really like him so last week me and my husband where talking and my cell phone rang and my husband said answerit and i said no just let it ring so he graped it from me and answered so my husband found out so now im the worst person in the world but u see before all this my husband always been the kind of man always in the street goingout not coming home and etc..... so now hes going to live me i dont know what to do and i have a 2 year old girl by my husband please help.

2007-02-15 06:29:50 · 12 answers · asked by Letty 1 in Weddings

To have sex outside the marriage if both parties agree to it.

LiL EarlE

The Postal Service Rules

2007-02-15 06:29:25 · 20 answers · asked by LiL EarlE 2 in Singles & Dating

This should have been done months ago but my fiancee's parents just decided to pay for real flowers so I am on the hunt for a florist. What do I need to be paying attention to other than prices?

2007-02-15 06:29:18 · 7 answers · asked by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 in Weddings

an arabic girl a Q. but didn't have the chance....why when ever i go out with an arabic girl i feel that they are very shallow all what they care about is stupid things like how much money i'v got what type of car...and ect. they don't take the person the way he is from the inside....?????

2007-02-15 06:29:05 · 18 answers · asked by Moh Qudah 1 in Singles & Dating

I found a duplicate of the wedding dress I want on an Ebay store, Bridal Images. I was wondering has anyone ever purchased a dress from this seller and how did it turn out. Really need some advice. Thanks Everyone in advance!

2007-02-15 06:29:04 · 4 answers · asked by Ronnie Jo 1 in Weddings

How does everyone do it?! Cleaning, cooking, working part-time from home, and a ten month old comprise my life. How do you other moms balance everything? I want to spend as much time with my daughter as possible, but what about housework and cooking? I also work part-time, and let my daughter watch videos or play in the room while I work. I feel so guilty... I don't know what to do to better care for her.

2007-02-15 06:28:54 · 14 answers · asked by dde 1 in Family

This question is especially geared towards men over 40.

I have a friend who lives with his g/f. They have not been getting along for quite some time. He says he doesn't sleep with her because he is turned off by her (she supports this claim of him not sleeping with her as well). My question is this....is it possible that he really doesn't sleep with her because he doesn't want to, or is it possible there is more to the reason he doesn't (like maybe he is having ED issues)?

I guess I find it hard to believe he doesn't have sex. He is only 45. Hardly old enough to give it up and yet seemingly he is not getting it anywhere else either. I know when my ex and I were splitting up, we still did the deed on occasion..it was just physical, but we still did it.

2007-02-15 06:28:30 · 11 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have known "Dani" since she was born. I'm 21 and she is 19. She just got out of a bad 2 yr relationship with her first boyfriend. The next day she started dating his best friend who she had been wanting the entire time anyway. They have only been dating 2 months when they decided to start trying to have a baby. Dani works at a video store, and makes $900/month. Her new boyfriend has no job, and a felony on his record, which will make it hard to get a job at all. They got approved for a $800/month apartment and are all excited about it. I have no clue how they think they are going to afford it. They just figure that he will have a job by the time the old tennants move out. She has decided to drop out of college too, to be a mother. They are OK with going on government assistance. I have no problem with getting help when you have NO CHOICE, but it bugs me that they would purposely put themselves in this situation on purpose. Last night, she announced they are engaged!

2007-02-15 06:28:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-15 06:28:07 · 17 answers · asked by Suvrangsu m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just asked a question about my boyfriend being an addict to pain pills...Now Im wondering If I try and get him professional help, or you even gets it....Im worried about the legal aspects of it - He is an addict to illegal drugs....I dont want people snopping through my bussiness...Or what if he quits, then starts again and goes for help....Whats the legal side of it? I know i worded all this wrong,LOL sorry

2007-02-15 06:28:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi all

I have this girlfriend which I love and we spend the weekend together and some days in the week. She told me that one of her friends (female) has a staff party to go to Saturday but she can only bring one person. Should I let her go with her friend or should I tell her I would like to spend the Saturday night with her. I would understand if she had to go overseas on business or family but I don’t think she should go out a Saturday night with a friend and I am there bored at home.

Need advice on what to do

thanks a million

2007-02-15 06:27:50 · 15 answers · asked by JM 1 in Singles & Dating

Are there many guys out there that don't like kissing too much.
Maybe prefer long hugs? Or what?
Not referring to sex.

2007-02-15 06:27:34 · 1 answers · asked by Patricia 4 in Singles & Dating

Im really shy but we talk a lot. Hes really nice and sweet. I get really nervous but im not sure if he likes me back I tend to nervous around him but we have alot of things in common.

2007-02-15 06:26:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my bf have a problem with understanding one another and tryin to work things out..every time we get into a fight online he just get's off..and im trying to work on understanding him but how do you really know how to understand someone?

2007-02-15 06:26:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like how they dress and so and bout their man an so rite so now i want to knw if she go do the same thing to me but with another person

2007-02-15 06:26:37 · 14 answers · asked by Honestly 3 in Friends

I am boss away yeah!

2007-02-15 06:26:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like to ur gf, or bf....

2007-02-15 06:25:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

been seeing him for a year he got alot of issues that i have tried so hard to help him with,but i dont seem to be getting anywhere.he decided a few weeks ago that he just wanted us to be friends i refused at first as i cant be in love with him and just be friends, but i thought anything was better than nothing so i agreed he has said that he does'nt want to stop seeing me,i see him once a week but he texts me everyday but i am so miserable the whole time im not with him and just wait for him to text me ,i feel so pathetic im a grown women and spend all my time wanting to be with him.and waiting for him to text me,my life is on hold and im fed up of being so utterley miserable all the time, we are going out on sat night so do i tell him no more texts ? and not see him again ? even the thought of it tears me apart or do i just carry on as they are in the hope that things will get better ? i honestly didnt believe that you could love someone so much i just thought it happened in films

2007-02-15 06:25:10 · 21 answers · asked by demmi 2 in Singles & Dating