im talking to this one guy that has a family, u see this couple lived with me a year ago and they came to visit me like 2months ago and since then im talking to the guy and i really like him so last week me and my husband where talking and my cell phone rang and my husband said answerit and i said no just let it ring so he graped it from me and answered so my husband found out so now im the worst person in the world but u see before all this my husband always been the kind of man always in the street goingout not coming home and etc..... so now hes going to live me i dont know what to do and i have a 2 year old girl by my husband please help.
2007-02-15 06:29:50 · 12 answers · asked by Letty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Sorry, but sleep in the bed you have made.
You chose to speak to this man on the sly and your husband found out. Cheaters get no symapthies from me. And even if you weren't physically cheating you were emotionally cheating, no difference in my book.
2007-02-15 06:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by kateqd30 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, stop talking to the other man before you two damage his marriage.
As for your own marriage, you could try to sit the hubby down and tell him that you were flattered by the other man's attention-isn't that the truth? Then tell him you've cut off all contact with the other man, even offer to change your phone number, and do it if he accepts the offer. You are not in a position to argue right now. If you want to keep your husband, you need to earn his trust back and do whatever it takes.
Good luck.
2007-02-15 06:39:04 · answer #2 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your husband is going out without you all the time and now this your pretty much cheating on him. Then you both have major marriage problem. If you wantto be with you husband then try and work it out. You need to have a talk. Find out what he want and tell him what you want.
Once someone cheats there is no going back....there is no trust ever again.
2007-02-15 08:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to look into your heart and find out who you really want to be with, and if you like this other man than its not fair to stay with your husband he needs to be with someone who will give him her whole heart. So either pick your husband or dont. But you need to stick with one man only. See if your marriage is worth saving or not, and if this family you have is worth keeping and holding onto. If yes than you need to shut this other guy out and go see couples therapy and get help to bulid on this. Find out if your husband is loyal to you and than bulid a relationship and marriage all over agian and be faithful to one another if this is what you both really want. But if you have doubts than you need to leave and take time to think about what you really want. You need to think about your baby girl as well and how this will affect her.
2007-02-15 07:05:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you cheating on your husband? Emotionally or physically? If so then its your own fault and you must live with the consequences of your actions. If not then your husband is in the wrong, but you might be better off without him anyway.
2007-02-15 06:40:21 · answer #5 · answered by Sometimes I just wonder why... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should suggest couples conseling. Truth is... ifyou cheated on your husband, either physically or emotionally, there is probably something in your marriage that you are not happy with and you may not even know it. I would definately ask your husband to see a therapist with you.
2007-02-19 00:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by Sara K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are wanting to cheat on your husband and your hubby wants to leave you?
Girl you need to sit down and think about whether this new guy, WHO IS MARRIED LIK EYOU, is worth getting your panties in a bunch over when you are already with your husband and have a child with him!
2007-02-15 08:35:38 · answer #7 · answered by Mimi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the lesson people never learn
2007-02-15 06:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by Allan B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you screwd up. If your married why play behind his back ? If he cheated on you and you stayed with him...thats on you. Look....you are married or you are not !!! dont play behind his back. ITS WRONG !!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-15 06:44:46 · answer #9 · answered by just me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with the guy!!!
2007-02-15 06:36:28 · answer #10 · answered by BooBoo 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋