At first it was fun making him chase me around . But now i think im begining to fall for him. Yes we are attracted to each other alot.There is so much spark and chemistry between us. I must admit it is really hard to resist temptation at times. But i always knew lust is not the only thing i wanted in a relationship. So i said no to Sex with him. Surprisingly he still stayed with me. Its super amazing how he holds me tight and kisses me there is so much passion to his touch. When he is around me he is like a lost baby and all he wants to do is look into my eyes and give me hugs. And when he is away he behaves he is in control over his feelings. He never speaks about his feelings towards me. And thats what I want to hear.. Am asking for to much? Im not sure what he really wants? I think im confused
2007-02-15 06:33:13 · 13 answers · asked by julia1975 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not all guys are comfortable talking about their feelings and if you said no sex and he's still around, he prolly wants you, and not just in sex.....
2007-02-15 06:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by Metallico 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you obviously like each other, but you need to open up to each other a bit more. Tell him how you feel-you're not asking too much at all. Maybe he's a shy guy who has trouble with talking bout or saying stuff like that. So if you bring up how you feel you're also giving him a chance to say how he feels. Good luck!
2007-02-15 14:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by Lily 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
next time you are relaxing with him and feeling very comfortable just ask him, straight out, what are your feelings towards me?
If he stumbles for an answer, just assure him that you just want to make sure your on the same wave as far as your relationship.
Don't be aggressive about it.. and wait for a really relaxed moment..
He sounds like a keeper so far, so give him time to be comfortable expressing his feelings. Guys have trouble doing that sometime because they're afraid of saying the wrong thing.. just like us.
2007-02-15 14:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by static_nerdling 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whats the problem again??? You want him to tell the world how he feels about you to the whole world. Could it be that he's a private person and like to keep his personal business to himself.
Personally, I think that as long as he's telling you how he feels then it should not be a problem.
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Sorry I read the question wrong...I agree with the other posters he could be a shy person or don't know how to express himself. Give him time. Actions speak louder then words.
2007-02-15 14:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be patient with the relationship and see what develops. Keep the temptation at bay because it seems important to you that the relationship is not sexual at this point. That's something that cannot be undone, so please think about that. It will be more and more difficult to say no to sex if you keep on making out.
Just my thoughts. Good luck with your boyfriend.
2007-02-15 14:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by risa_rific 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men very rarely speak out about how they feel.
Good job, saying no to sex for right now and reconizing that good relationships are based upon more important things--which are HONESTY and COMMUNICATION.
He sounds like a good,understanding guy so why not talk to him?
2007-02-15 14:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by Lauran B. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, at first was about him chasing you... so that might be involved in his secrecy about his feelings. I thinkg girls are so clever... and they always know about that issue, i recommend you one thing... you can play like complete the word... but you need to be clever in order to get the right answers... you will say a word and he will say the first thing that comes to his mind... watch out! and good luck!
2007-02-15 14:40:54 · answer #7 · answered by PELON 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever asked him how he feels about you? Maybe he just has trouble finding the right moment to express himself!
Best wishes!
2007-02-15 14:37:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, you will never understand men at all...give it up...you are trying for the impossible if you expect to....
2007-02-15 14:37:03 · answer #9 · answered by tx girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sheep in wolves clothing. nut you will fall for him have a child then wonder where youre gonna get child support..........
2007-02-15 14:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by wofford1257 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋