me and my bf have a problem with understanding one another and tryin to work things out..every time we get into a fight online he just get's off..and im trying to work on understanding him but how do you really know how to understand someone?
2007-02-15 06:26:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have'nt seen each other in almost 2 week (thats another story) and thats all we been doing is talking online and went fight about seeing each other...but he says sometimes his just stressed and he needs to calm down to be able to talk about it
2007-02-15 06:46:36 · update #1
It will take time. I have been married for over 10 years and still trying to understand my wife. You just need to keep communicating with him. However, if he keeps breaking off the communication every time you both get into a fight, you will always have problems and may need to reassess your relationship with him.
2007-02-15 06:32:37 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Smooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to try an understand a person that you are in a relationship with. You know the saying different strokes for different folks? Well that's where it comes from! Different people are subject to different things especially males! You may just have to let him know that you are not really understanding his emotions! Wish you the best luck!!!
2007-02-15 06:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by Mizz. J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do in situations like this is to follow your heart and let him down easily. If you really do not feel the same way then you need to get out of that relationship and give his friend a shot. However, you could end up getting burned if the friend turns on you as well.
2016-05-24 04:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is what you need to understand - you are too beautiful to be treated in this manner. I am currently filling the tank of my El Camino here in Plymouth, MI and ready for a roadtrip to see you. No online chat here. Just the REAL thing - passionate, intimate, deep conversation as I hold you in my arms.
All I need are directions...
2007-02-15 06:47:06 · answer #4 · answered by Harry Taco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk in person. It's too hard online. He's seems to be acting rather childish also just logging off. Meet someone new like at the mall. :P
2007-02-15 06:32:37 · answer #5 · answered by The Syko Ward 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really not good for a relationship to log off when things are tough. If he can't understand that maybe you should find someone who does?
2007-02-15 06:31:03 · answer #6 · answered by scruffy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch Dr Phil and listen to both parties
2007-02-15 06:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by DVD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication is the key to ur problem. if u want to work it out u need to call a meeting in a nice private place and tell him how u want to work it out.
2007-02-15 06:41:26 · answer #8 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to him one on one and tell how you feel and Good Luck!
2007-02-15 06:32:01 · answer #9 · answered by Leomi M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say to break him. if u guys cant understand each other there is no point in staying together...
2007-02-15 06:47:47 · answer #10 · answered by Sagar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋