I think my question is pretty self explanitory. I'm well educated, I'm athletic, i'm straight I think I'm alright looking and I'm not fat or anything like that.
Why can't I get a date? I mean in my whole life, I've had one boyfriend and he well.....was more feminine then me.
I'm curious really, why do guys avoid me? Why can't I get a date from anyone. I'm shy i'm not too bold and I'm not all slutty or anything. Infact my picture if the most make up I have ever worn in my life.
Can anyone help me out?
2007-02-15 06:30:32 · 9 answers · asked by toronto_leafs 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why can't I get asked out?
I think my question is pretty self explanitory. I'm well educated, I'm athletic, i'm straight I think I'm alright looking and I'm not fat or anything like that.
Why can't I get a date? I mean in my whole life, I've had one boyfriend and he well.....was more feminine then me.
I'm curious really, why do guys avoid me? Why can't I get a date from anyone. I'm shy i'm not too bold and I'm not all slutty or anything. Infact my picture if the most make up I have ever worn in my life.
Can anyone help me out?
I also go to the gym and work out, so I'm in pretty good shape, but not like creepy shape. And I do have exposure to guys, I play hockey with them (goalie)
2007-02-15 06:49:37 · update #1
I also go to the gym and work out, so I'm in pretty good shape, but not like creepy shape. And I do have exposure to guys, I play hockey with them (goalie)
2007-02-15 06:50:18 · update #2
Oh another thing, I've had a few people tell me they find me indimidating, but can't tell me why. I mean I'm very approachable and I have a pretty kind demenor and I love to laugh and joke with people....
This depresses me
2007-02-15 14:08:12 · update #3
maybe it has to do with the way u see and carry urself in public. if u seem insecure and shy, guys will tend to stay away from u(except, of course, those who "like shy girls") try breaking out of ur shell, work on ur self-esteem, too. the more you like yourself, the more guys will. dont be a conceited slut, just be confident
2007-02-15 06:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn I would have trouble asking some one as beautiful as you out and I am also wondering why no one asked you out. You seem like a great girl from what you said. I kind of have the same problem I'm good looking and single myself at the age of 18 your not the only one out there who is single and great looking. E-mail me some time at toronadobandit@yahoo.com
Good luck.
2007-02-15 14:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by Bandit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi is that your real face if it is the problem is not with you its guys. Damn girl will you go out with me. Most guys are afraid of girls who earn better than they do thats all.
let me know how it goes write to me
nico
2007-02-23 08:21:44 · answer #3 · answered by nico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing you're a fan of the Leaf's we won't hold that against you but I'm still willing to drive your net....crash your crease....only if you help me pull my goalie???
2007-02-15 14:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by Paul M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU CAN"T GET ASKED OUT???? Where do you hang out, a monastary? You are beautiful so if you are not getting asked out it is becuase guys are afraid of you.
Join any activity that has men in it (e.g. gym; volunteer group, etc). Trust me, you'll get asked out!
2007-02-15 14:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it looks like the guys think they are not good enough for you.
2007-02-16 21:55:46 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy isn't the only one that has to do the asking.. you can too...
Maybe they are all intimidated
2007-02-23 02:41:16 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Brandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**************BEST ANSWER HERE*****************
Re-evaluate your standards.
They may be too high. You may disqualify potential "good guys" for superficial reasons.
If you can accept guys for "who" they are, then you may be more realistic and have better odds..
Good luck.
2007-02-15 14:49:23 · answer #8 · answered by HottNikkels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be they dont think you approachable.
2007-02-15 15:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by darthdread13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋