Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

Sometimes I feel so close to finding it, but then I realise that it isn't close at all...so, how do you find love?

2007-02-15 06:24:30 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband watches porn daily. He denies it but I know b/c I check behind him especially when I leave my home. He threw away all 148 movies (not an exaggeration) he had 3 months ago b/c he wanted to prove that he was not addicted to it. Now he watches it on tv or online and tries to hide that he watches it by deleting the history (which I can recover). Is this an addiction? And if you think it is, is it a sexual addiction? And yes we have great sex so that is not the reason why b/4 u ask.

2007-02-15 06:24:21 · 9 answers · asked by daprty1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Yesterday I was on the phone with my friend and my cruh and her were emailing each other(well at least i think) and then I asked her what they were talking about and then she said that he said that he liked her alot and that he wants to go out with her and my friend knows i like him and she does not like him at all she thinks that hes not very attractive really and so then he asked her if she felt the same way and she said yes!!!! and i was furious!! i was crying all night about it.... i asked my mom for advice and her and i were just talking about how i feel and i was crying at the dinner table when i was my brothers 19th birthday and i was crying the whole time.... i took off this day of school because i did not want to handle my friend and her new bf... i need advice about this so that when i go back to school tommorow i know what to say to her or if i ignore her... valentines day is the worst day ever and i need advice about this.can you help me with this so i know what to do

2007-02-15 06:23:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 35 year old mother of 2 and a wife for 10 years. Aside from the nightmares my mother-in-law, his ex and his family has put me / us through, life has been fine. We love each other, we have fun together, great intimacy and all of the above. However, last year my MIL became ill and was hospitalized... this cause a huge change in my husband as I suspected it would since my MIL has never been much of a mother let alone a MIL or a grandmother. She was always an indifferent, empty, and in her own little way vindictive. I was prepared to help him emotionally with the void his mother would leave behind. My MIL has since passed away, my husband finds fault with me at least once a week. Once a week I do something wrong, he's mad at me, I just fault short of his expectations. As a result we go days in silence. We made it an entire year with his mood swings and now with the new year upon us we have started this year the same. How long before enough is enough. I'm very sad; ALWAYS

2007-02-15 06:22:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So the ex-wife show's up all the time. At funeral's, when someone is in the hospital. I rarely run into her but, I hate it. They have kids together, he is not her last wife, but the only one he has kids with. I think it is jacked-up for her to show up. She divorced him and his family too right?

2007-02-15 06:22:46 · 25 answers · asked by Carolyn C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-15 06:21:39 · 5 answers · asked by princesstocrown 2 in Friends

who is the smarter?
A: Man
B: Woman

2007-02-15 06:21:37 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm thinking about super gluing his dick. Should I do it? Doesn't he deserve it? Tell me what to do?

2007-02-15 06:21:33 · 8 answers · asked by Bessie H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She says just $50, because it doesn't take very long, but eve with the discount, it adds up pretty quick. Plus, she really doesn't makeall that much of an effort.

2007-02-15 06:21:29 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-15 06:20:13 · 11 answers · asked by Period 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 06:20:06 · 8 answers · asked by ptrfeiss 1 in Singles & Dating

i have this little habbit!! i notice that when im makin out with this guy..i allways close my eyes at first..for like 5 seconds..then i open them ..and keep them open!! he allways has them closed tho...does this mean anything?? does anyone relate!

2007-02-15 06:20:06 · 7 answers · asked by mE 1 in Singles & Dating

What is the prime age for a women? How about a man? Meaning sexually.

2007-02-15 06:19:20 · 29 answers · asked by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm college sr & grad. in May. I'm a white, 22 yo man. I grew up an army kid (until 10 when my dad walked out on us) & was always around tons of diff. people & cultures.But was NEVER SEEN AS A BAD "DIFFERENT." I want to date interracially(mainly African Americans), but my parents don't agree with it. They are racist, thinking that white m & white f should only date each other,etc (Everyone with their own race). I TOTALLY DISAGREE because I am not attracted by color nor do I stop liking someone/being attracted to someone because she just happens to be of another skin tone. I am heavily attracted to black and latin girls,white girls really don't do much for me. My mom says she don't care really. My stepdad is total opposite. He comments on people negatively who do & we have had arguments about it in the past. The thing is, I still live with them until May, but I wanna start now. What should I do? Go with my heart or wait a couple more months? I'm torn bc I am crushing on a few girls no

2007-02-15 06:17:59 · 11 answers · asked by Trojan8408 5 in Friends

My bf surprized me with the best Valentine's Day that I have ever had. I want to do something out of the ordinary and creative to show him my appriciation. Any ideas?

2007-02-15 06:17:55 · 3 answers · asked by Graham 2 in Singles & Dating

me and this girl use to go with each other and after 1 month it was over after that i was starting to fall for her like real feelings i never felt b-for i dont know how she really feel what should i do?

2007-02-15 06:17:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Trying to find bridesmaids dresses for my wedding this summer, thinking cotton, in turquoise, pinks, greens...want to keep it light and simple, fun and comfortable! =)

2007-02-15 06:16:51 · 15 answers · asked by tallgirl1478 1 in Weddings

My ex is driving me insane , I cant tell what he wants . Weve been talking online for a while now and he gives me mixed signals . Sometimes his a sweet heart and sometimes he is a complete jerk , once he wrote back apologizing because he wants to talk to me more but doesnt have time and then he will completely ignore me for weeks , then he will write me up outta the blue about some random crap .

2007-02-15 06:16:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It is for a religious reason. We have been engaged since christmas and living together since November. We are moving into an apartment next week and not his mother is having a fit over living together before marriage. It's a little too late to go back on the new apartment. She wants us to go through counseling cause she got divorced and wants the best for us.She'll pay for it. She is asking me to move up the wedding so she can be comfortable with her baby(29) living with a girl. Any advice on how I can get her to be more comfortable with the situation.

2007-02-15 06:16:19 · 14 answers · asked by poof10958 4 in Marriage & Divorce

old synic

2007-02-15 06:16:16 · 18 answers · asked by raymond s 1 in Singles & Dating

When she comes out of the shower i say... "it puts the lotion on the skin or else it gets the hose again"... she loves it.

2007-02-15 06:16:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm with this man whom I've been dating for quite some time and we have moved in together, I have been married once before when I was real young, and he has been married three times, all his marriages failed because he works out of state alot, The differences between me and his other ex's, it that he always comes home on the weekends or he is having me go to where ever he is at. He didn't do this with his other ex's and he was married to them. He says he doesn't want to get married againbut his actions sometimes are saying something else, and finally after 12 years I am finally ready to marry again. Anybody have any advice as to how I can tell if he really wants to get married or not????

2007-02-15 06:16:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so there's this boy..we went out before but he broke up with me..for something really stupid..then when we came back to school he was all over me and then one day he told me that he still have feelings for me..I think I still have feelings for him IDK i am really confused. Then yesterday he text me and we were talking and then he told me that he wanted to give me a kiss and stuff and I really do want to though...but Idk but anyways noo we didnt do it. but i dont know..does he like me or what? he's always hugging me and he's always staring at me. he even sit on my lap. and he gets mad when I dont talk to him and stuff like that.. help??

2007-02-15 06:15:27 · 8 answers · asked by ~babygirl18~ 2 in Singles & Dating

no guys at my school like me like a girl friend what can i do to bust my sex apppeal?

2007-02-15 06:15:16 · 2 answers · asked by shelby g 2 in Singles & Dating

Here is a short summary about the situation.

About a year ago I saw this girl at the school that I go to (college).
And on February 6 2007, I was introduced to her. I really like her alot. I just want everything to go well. I've been talking to her just about every day since then. We both call eachother about the same amount of times. Does that mean that she is interested in me also. our first date is on saturday February 24 2007. If you guys/girls can help me out.

Do you think that she is also interested in me?
What is a good romantic / first date restaurant in San Diego?

Thank you.

2007-02-15 06:14:39 · 3 answers · asked by Cisco 1 in Singles & Dating

i have never really been that happy. yes i have happy moments, but i'm now 23 years old, athletic and i have friends. i just dont care, i've never cared. and no one or nothing makes me that happy. also i've never had a girlfriend that makes me happy, BUT!!!! i have found a girl, who makes me awfully happy. (a first). but we argue, and that makes me angry. (by that way i have anger problems i think.) she's also selfish. basically i break my balls for her, and when i look for a thanks i have to force it out of her. if i have money in my pocket, i litterally give it to her. so i ask i dont have any question. i'll take whateva (in a boston accent).

2007-02-15 06:14:18 · 13 answers · asked by max 2 in Singles & Dating

explore other possibilities ? I am recently divorced from a man that is a good man. We had our real issues that led to divorce, basically my uncontentment and even after we sincerely tried to make it work out, I ended up leaving because I felt guilty for staying out of my indecisiveness. I felt like I did the right thing by leaving and now that I'm out here alone...it's easy to think you made the wrong choice but I really have hope of trying to find someone more meant for me...that profound connection I've been craving and never found. I'd rather be searching than settling...how about you ? This was a first marriage for both of us.

2007-02-15 06:13:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This guy I work with has been seeing this married lady with 2 kids..this has been going on for about 4 months.She finally tells him she wants to stay with her hubby and that she has no feelings for him..he cannot seem to accept this..he has threatened to end his life because he says he loves her and can't live without her...He is hateful and mean at work, very hard to get along with now..I think he should move on and find someone else..what do you think??

2007-02-15 06:13:35 · 11 answers · asked by ladyluck 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i put a qusetion down on something that i need to write a paper on but i didn't know that if you pick an answer you can't get more answers. I NEED MORE ANSWERS !

2007-02-15 06:13:28 · 5 answers · asked by Robert Stineback 1 in Family

When I set about a task, I am just interested in getting it done. I am not interested in my wife's opinion about the best way to do it. It isn't an insult to her intelligence or a lack of faith in her ability to do the task herself. I simply don't care how she'd do it. I enjoy doing things my own way.

It doesn't matter if it is building a deck in the back yard, taking my son to the park, or preparing a lasagne for a dinner party; my wife feels the need to chime in with suggestions. If I want my wife's advice on something I will ask her.

2007-02-15 06:12:43 · 26 answers · asked by Martin Pedersen 6 in Marriage & Divorce