Yesterday I was on the phone with my friend and my cruh and her were emailing each other(well at least i think) and then I asked her what they were talking about and then she said that he said that he liked her alot and that he wants to go out with her and my friend knows i like him and she does not like him at all she thinks that hes not very attractive really and so then he asked her if she felt the same way and she said yes!!!! and i was furious!! i was crying all night about it.... i asked my mom for advice and her and i were just talking about how i feel and i was crying at the dinner table when i was my brothers 19th birthday and i was crying the whole time.... i took off this day of school because i did not want to handle my friend and her new bf... i need advice about this so that when i go back to school tommorow i know what to say to her or if i ignore her... valentines day is the worst day ever and i need advice about this.can you help me with this so i know what to do
2007-02-15 06:23:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's not really your friend if she knew you liked him and said yes. I'd end the friendship if I were you. Because a true friend would never let a guy come between you two. They'd say no just to stay your friend.
2007-02-15 06:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by no name 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let that be a lesson, next time you have a crush, you let the guy know and get it over with. that way you don't give time to any other girl to take him away. As far as your friend, she is not a friend. You should tell her how her behavior hurt your feelings, and see what she says. Don't worry, it will be ok. There will be other boys! lots of them!
2007-02-15 14:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by Atousa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..I would say get over it and move on. He was just your crush, and it seems really selfish of you to be crying ALLL day and at a family event just becuase of this. She's not your freind, he's not into you, and maybe she just wanted someone to go out with on valentines day??
Valentines day is not fun when your alone, Im sure you learnt this.
2007-02-15 14:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by kinky toes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crushes usually stay crushes. Meaning, they rarely develop into full-fledged relationships. Your friend may have more in common with your "crush" than you do, and maybe because she saw it as only a crush, she felt like it was OK to move on in.
Now, if he was a BF, then your friend would be out of line as would your BF.
The way to move on from this is that you have to ask yourself, "Why would I want to be with anyone who does not want to be with me, and me alone?"
do you get my point?
2007-02-15 14:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by DrRJP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats why I tell girls....just go and tell the guy you like him...or else your friend or another girl will step right up and take your place. Boys aren't monsters and you wont die if you tell a guy you like him. Now I hope you've learned you lesson, next time you'll just tell the poor guy, m'kay?
2007-02-15 14:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U shud tell her again and again that u like him and she shuld stop plain wid him and tell the guy that she has no feelings for him and ignore that biotch what kind of friend is she
2007-02-15 14:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by Chequinah C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, your friend is a witch. if she was truly your friend then she wouldn't do that to you. unless she actually did like him, but knew that you did too. and it turns out he likes her, so she took her chance at being happy. ask her if she lied to you about not liking him.
2007-02-15 14:30:25 · answer #7 · answered by christi t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have told him! Stop playing games be honest
2007-02-15 14:26:35 · answer #8 · answered by dlschnathorst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some friend
2007-02-15 14:28:40 · answer #9 · answered by EmmaNicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋