This guy I work with has been seeing this married lady with 2 kids..this has been going on for about 4 months.She finally tells him she wants to stay with her hubby and that she has no feelings for him..he cannot seem to accept this..he has threatened to end his life because he says he loves her and can't live without her...He is hateful and mean at work, very hard to get along with now..I think he should move on and find someone else..what do you think??
2007-02-15 06:13:35 · 11 answers · asked by ladyluck 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
NO..I'm not the one he is involved with..I'm only a friend.I don't approve of what he did,and he knows it that is why he is giving me the cold shoulder...but I am still concerned he might do something stupid...
2007-02-15 06:27:37 · update #1
He did go out with one of my friends.She said all he did was whine about her..She didn't want to go out with him again..Can't blame her...She tried to cheer him up it just didn't work out..
2007-02-15 06:31:17 · update #2
chiccchick...He is a friend..he asked for my input and was very upset when I told him I thought it was wrong for him to be involved in a relationship with this woman.He has been trying to get us to persuade the lady to actually leave her husband..that's where I drew the line and told him I wasn't going to be involved anymore...Guess he will have to find another way to cope..He want even talk to me now...Oh well...life goes on....
2007-02-15 06:51:45 · update #3
It was wrong of him to get involved with someone who is married in the first place...he should move on and find someone else, but he has just had his heart broke so you should console him and help him move on...possibly try to find someone else for him but not to pushy about it.
2007-02-15 06:27:54 · answer #1 · answered by superstar 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have nothing but contempt for people that cheat on a marriage or have an affair that wrecks a marriage, especially when there are kids involved. It sounds like this guy is bound and determined to think only of his own feelings. Load him up the gun or give him the pills or whatever he needs to finish his threat. Think of it as natural selection.
2007-02-15 14:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by J D 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let's see: got involved with a married woman.
No self-respect, fear of commitment, no integrity.
Married woman dumps him. Self-respect goes lower than the basment it was already in;it's in ego-smashing negative territory, and he probably never saw the attatchment coming. She probably told him a lot of crap, and he started to believe the fantasy, and now reality is crashing in and he's trying to process it, and the truth...
he had no integrity, he wasn't being himself, he lost himself, and he doesn't respect himself.
Give him time. He should be mad at her and himself. They both suck. She just sucks more.
2007-02-15 15:44:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stay out of his personal life. And if working with him is unbearable, then you need to bring it up with him first, and if nothing changes, bring it up with boss second. Not fair to his colleagues to be unreasonable at work when personal life is not going well.
2007-02-15 14:36:13 · answer #4 · answered by chicchick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's addicted to her coochie. Find some one to give him a coochie fix. He'll be all right in an hour.
2007-02-15 14:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a looser, who cares what he is going through, let him suffer, he was screwing a married woman, what did he expect. Why do you care, unless you are the married woman. Hummm.
2007-02-15 14:18:22 · answer #6 · answered by javelin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He needs to move on!
2007-02-15 14:24:21 · answer #7 · answered by MISTY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him to see a Doctor.
2007-02-15 14:21:15 · answer #8 · answered by flowerchild1779 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, that sucks. Well he for sure needs to get over it.
2007-02-15 14:24:13 · answer #9 · answered by Hotcakes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say It's not my problem
2007-02-15 14:23:33 · answer #10 · answered by jentn2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋