Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months on and off. I have already said my "I Love You's" because I truly do. He says he will say it when the time is right. Personally, I don't think he ever will. What do u suggest?
2007-02-15 06:33:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have only been dating four months, don't rush things. He may be the kind that only says it when he is absolutely sure, that isn't a bad thing. Stop telling him you love him and stop saying anything to him about him not telling you. See if he notices and if this bothers him. If he thinks you have stopped loving him because you stop talking about it, it may make him think and realize that if he loves you he had better tell you before its too late. Thats what I would try anyways. Good luck.
2007-02-15 06:38:09 · answer #1 · answered by A M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep waiting or tell him goodbye. That's all you can do. If he won't say it, he isn't sure if he really does yet. You can wait it out to see if he makes up his mind or find someone else. Four months isn't all that long of a time. You've let him know your feelings. Your part is done. Don't pressure him into saying it; that would just push him away. Let him come to his own conclusions about his feelings.
2007-02-15 06:38:36 · answer #2 · answered by becki5ive 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sheeshh... some human beings haven't any clue. i presumed all and sundry knew that information to assert "i love you" for the first actual time, is after 7 margarita's, 3 rum and cokes, and four photos of Jim Beam..... *sighs*
2016-11-03 13:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you really want him to say it if he did not mean it? Just because you feel it does not mean he does. If he get's to the point that he feels that way I'm sure he'll tell you.
2007-02-15 06:38:26 · answer #4 · answered by lunasage 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If in your heart you don't think he will. Something is wrong with your relationship it is time to start seeing someone else.
2007-02-15 06:47:14 · answer #5 · answered by pretty face 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not wait until he DOES love you.
Do you really want him to say it just because you want to hear it, or do you want him to mean it when he says it?
2007-02-15 06:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by Tough Love 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you, consider him as your "Lover"
You see, with men once we know you're Sprung---ITz On!(You're Sprung!)
He's got you where he needs and wants you.
Find someone that loves you. If you want to be "IN-Love".
2007-02-15 06:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by FunkyMcNasty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it be or you'll end up pushing him away. like he said when he's ready he will.
2007-02-15 06:39:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him say it when he's ready and if he doesn't ever say it then he's not 'the one'....
2007-02-15 06:37:53 · answer #9 · answered by Metallico 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't force it wouldn't you rather it come from their heart
2007-02-15 06:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋