Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

like every boy in the school likes me and i dont know which one to pick please help me

2007-02-15 07:27:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its like this in short he has cheated on me twice but i was hurt by his 2nd affair bocoz the girl was a very nice girl he fooled her financially ,emotionally and phisically h, he owes her money which he says he wiil pay when he has it ,but he is buying furniture for himself . why dosent he pay her? .i didnt leave him bcoz i was too weak and too much in love with him at that point of time but eversince then things have never been the same for me this was more than a year ago but now i am finding it difficult to forget it i loose my head when i think about it and what he did to that girl .ok i come from a well to do familly so sometimes i doubt whether he even loves me plus he is totally unromantic he dosent do little things that make a girl feel good i dont mean expensive gifts but 1 rose, a unexpected token of love ,dinners ,goin to movies,but when i say this he says you come from a better familly you do it i would but i am aware of his nature i am scared it has to be from both sides

2007-02-15 07:27:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 07:27:04 · 14 answers · asked by Mz Satisfying 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee and I are having a small private wedding and my mother is telling me that my whole family 12 hour drive away is getting there feelings hurt that there not invited? We plan on having in the following month after the wedding a dinner reception / post wedding celebration for the whole family and some of the family is saying there taking a vacation to come to the real wedding. I am so proud to have family willing to take their vacation just to attend my wedding but that defeats the small intimate wedding that my fiancee and i want? Any Ideas? Please? Is there a way to send a wedding announcment to my family but not a invititation to the wedding but to a post wedding celebration?

2007-02-15 07:26:45 · 10 answers · asked by vcaring 2 in Weddings

me and my girl have been goin through some things... i cheat on her and i know it was wrong and i told her and all that good.. but we did not break because we both wanted to work it out. but now she does things to make me mad. like today she left her email open and i saw a email 2 her ex... and it said that she was goin home for the weekend to be with him... she told me she was goin to see her family!!! this the email
ok I have a big problem with you now!!!!!!! I called u and texted you too many times and you have not responded to any of them, therfore this trip that I was taking to see you has a question mark beside it. I don't know what's the problem, or if there's a game that your playing, but I'm not into it. So because you clearly want to be a jerk I have not booked my ticket, and until you call, text or email me, I won't be coming to Evanston. I don't like playing games anymore, because I'm too old. Most of all I don't need bullshit from you, I been going through too much ****

2007-02-15 07:26:36 · 1 answers · asked by reese's cup 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my gf told me since it was my day off from work, that maybe i could paint the kitchen's ceiling while she was out which i did, now she won't talk to me! I even used her picture this time instead of her sister's!

2007-02-15 07:25:55 · 12 answers · asked by i say what i feel 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, so recently I started seeing a guy that I work with. He says he doesn't want a gf and wants no real commitment, but calls me every night asking how my day was etc. Sometimes he texts me, also we have spent numerous nights together going out, dancing, dinner, etc. We have fun together, however, I am a great deal younger than him and I believe that this scares him. Also, because we work together we remain very professional at work, so we have to hide our emotions. Another thing is that he calls me up to do things, but doesn't set a time or activity, just that we should get together later. He keeps things general, almost like he is fighting with himself internally. I believe that he likes me, people at work have told me that they think he likes me and I have to play dumb and pretend nothing is going on, but at the same time he is very confusing, because he tells me he doesn't want commitment. What do you think? I am confused.

2007-02-15 07:25:49 · 3 answers · asked by PuNk 2 in Singles & Dating

I briefly dated a good friend of mine several months ago . He broke up with me over a stupid mistake I made. But we still have become very good friends. (We're both 30 btw)
I still like him a lot and want him (secretly)
Recently he protected me from a crazy guy who was bothering me in the city. He acted fiercely protective (which is funny cause he's so gentle otherwise)
I just found out from friends that he still has feelings for me. But he just got out of a bad dating experience , is busy with writing grad school thesis and Im going to be working 70 hour weeks for next 5 weeks plus have vacation for two weeks in FL.
Should I wait to explore us dating again ? Or go for it now ?
My gut says wait until Spring and if it's meant to be it's meant to be ?
Smart to wait ?

2007-02-15 07:25:24 · 8 answers · asked by MeadowMeade 1 in Singles & Dating

And who gets the shaft? And be honest now. I hate people that come on here and brag on how "perfect" their marriage is.

2007-02-15 07:25:00 · 20 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-15 07:24:04 · 11 answers · asked by ♥poppy honey♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

i dont have any proof. i knew her name. she was his ex girl friend before marriage i m sure i know that my husband is having an affair with her. it makes me sad helpless i havea 3 yrs old daughter. i tried to talk with him about this but he got mad on me and said that i have to trust him. i know he is cheating. he is getting a better job in other company but he doest want to leave this job. i think he doesnt want to leave her thats why he isn ot changing his job. he abused me many times. what should i do get proofs? i dont have a saperate car to follow him. i want proofs so that he cant abuse me when i talk to him about this.. i m crying...

2007-02-15 07:23:54 · 22 answers · asked by carrie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

but....when we actually behave that way...they act confused, angry and tell us we are much too hard to understand.

2007-02-15 07:22:13 · 13 answers · asked by Shelly 4 in Singles & Dating

What is it about receiving flowers from your lover that makes you feel joy and pleasure. Why do women love flowers? What are most womens favorite flowers to receive and why?

2007-02-15 07:21:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why do you figure my brother, i haven't seen for 19yrs won't respond to me? he won't even say "don't want any" "no thanks don't want to know you" "see ya don't want to be ya"nothing! why? i would rather read that than guess and wait for a response. i found him in august 2006,what do you or anyone suppose i should do?

2007-02-15 07:21:42 · 15 answers · asked by D T 2 in Family

Just wonder, I think I like her and want to know more about her?

What would you suggest will be best idea to break the ice!!

2007-02-15 07:21:27 · 6 answers · asked by Knowledge Seeker 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend says that he will surprise me on Wednesday... what does that mean?

2007-02-15 07:21:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 14 and really like this girl "Grace" but she got a valentine card from one of my friends "Tim" I know that he likes her and is going to ask her out soon. I want to know if it is alright to ask her out before he does. People have been telling her that I like her, (I do.) and if i ask her out people would not talk to me. What should I do? Please give me good advice!

2007-02-15 07:20:56 · 4 answers · asked by Rob 3 in Singles & Dating

During a recent party my my friend who is a body painting artist specialses in body painting (painting beautiful pictures on bare human body) suggested that he could demonstrate his skills.everyone was eager an my friend wanted somebody to come forward to volunteer and the people were shy to come forward, my wife came forward. She got her bare breasts painted with a beautiful pictures. She won appreciations and these days my artist friend invited her to few more functions, where she got herself painted.

But during my artist friend’s birthday , she got herself painted fully and it was attended by my uncle too, who said to me that whenever he saw my wife at home, her nude body came to his mind, which made me uncomfortable as all men who had seen her painted could be thinking same about her.
I told her that she better stop this henceforth but she says that I should look it in the artistic sense. Is it ok for her to continue this?

2007-02-15 07:20:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

help please

2007-02-15 07:20:44 · 5 answers · asked by el 1 in Friends

2007-02-15 07:20:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

help

2007-02-15 07:20:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i like this boy alot....and i want to ask him out and my mom's just fine with that..... but i can't e-mail or call or go on a date with him i dont think thats all that bad (i dont get the phone thing but i'm not gonna push it) cause i can still hang out with him @ school


pretend you're in his place would you be willing to go out with someone those guidelines or would you think it'd be a waste of time?

be honset....

2007-02-15 07:18:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is the most stunning girl i have ever seen and thats an understatement. We are both are in the same grade of highschool and had some classes together last semester. We were both part of the same swim team. We have each others email and talk to each other a bit. We talk about of a variety of things. The problem is at school i have trouble talking to her as i said before because she is very pretty. There also is this guy who hangs out with her alot and they flirt alot. Me and her flirt on msn but not that much but i have trouble doing it in person. One look in to her beutiful brown eyes makes me feel so small that i just end up saying nothing they remind of that song called brown eyed girl. We no longer have classes with each other and only see each other at band and we play different instruments.Should i ask her out?????? And if i did i would want it to be really romantic but i dont know if i could work up the courage. I have asked this before but i want alot of answers.

2007-02-15 07:17:54 · 8 answers · asked by wassup 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband has never really had much of a sex drive, so I've gotten used to just taking the opportunities I'm given. But lately, its gotten very infrequent. It wouldn't bother me so much until now, the last two times we've started to have sex, he's started out really into it, and then just stopped half way, saying he's just not in the mood anymore. Its been extremely frustrating to me, not to mention it makes me feel pretty worthless in the bedroom. What could be wrong? We're still young, we've only been married 5 months. Please Help.

2007-02-15 07:16:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, my husband has a few best friends, who smack me on the bottom, tell me i'm so sexy and stare at my boobs and make comments right in fron of him and he laughs. I have a guy pal who told me i looked beautiful at my birthday party and my husband punched him in the face and said "How dare you look at my wife that way dude!" Um......why is it ok for his friends...but not mine?

2007-02-15 07:16:43 · 9 answers · asked by Rebekkah 2 in Friends

I am 26 years old with two kids. One of them is with a married man. Here is the deal I love him but because he is married I know there is no future for us. I have tried to move on but I won't let myself get intrested in someone else because I am so stuck on him. Everytime I say it's over he sucks me back in like I have no control. His wife has known about us for 2 years we have been together for 2 1/2. I know the best thing to do is to end things because all he has done is lie and hurt me I am just not sure how to do it.... Did I mention that we work together? Help me

2007-02-15 07:16:27 · 21 answers · asked by rat82 1 in Singles & Dating

she doesn't like it very often, and she doesn't make any effort... at least she's loud... any magic suggestions, or is this the typical piserable part of being married?

2007-02-15 07:16:27 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Since i did break up with my boyfriend today i have three men that want a date with me .I am wanting to date them but i am scared to date them. Please help me with this problem.I am afraid that if i date one then i want get to date the other two.

2007-02-15 07:16:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it doesnt make sense that some girls like these type of guys. the ******* treat the girl like crap and dont really respect women. the douche bags are just like the girls they date. they act the same way, wear the same type of clothes, etc. why cant some girls go for the nice guy who treats them with respect, values them as a person, and who is also different from them(not a douche bag)?

2007-02-15 07:16:03 · 8 answers · asked by whatshappenin? 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 07:15:26 · 6 answers · asked by She-whom-shall-not-be-named 4 in Singles & Dating