Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

I don't have a clue what my problem is. Most people say it's because I'm young (I am a teenager). I used to want a girlfriend, but it got old, and now I don't. I could not accept for example, getting a girl a gift for Valentine's Day, because I am afraid I would look funny. I would tell someone else to do it. I am afraid to show love at all. I am very unemotional, and I could never get any emotions. I view myself as a soldier, not a romance lover. I don't think I could ever get a girl, nor do I really want to. All the girls I know are taken up. No girl would ever want me, but that doesn't bother me, because I have given up looking for a girl. I could never show my love for anyone, and I don't even think I ever loved anyone or anything. I won't go to a psychologist, nor do I want to. I am not gay, but I really hate romance.

2007-02-15 07:39:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies, I know most women like to be on top when they're having sex. Is it because you're in control? Do you like an adventurous man in bed who likes to try new things? What is your favorite position?

2007-02-15 07:37:49 · 14 answers · asked by kungfumasterzod 2 in Singles & Dating

hey guys... well...he did not want to be wit me on v-day, and he ditches me for his friends all the time!!!!! what do i do ?????i hate this!!!!

2007-02-15 07:37:31 · 24 answers · asked by Dopie 1 in Singles & Dating

or to anyone come to that, but how on earth could you guess that within your own family unit lurks a paedophile waiting to pounce.

Would you have an inkling that this sort person lived in your midst?

2007-02-15 07:37:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

haha shes on here now and has pink hair hahaha only thing would be better is some tats!

2007-02-15 07:37:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

be honest how many items do you have, ie: toys, underwear, clothes etc, and did you buy it or was it bought for you

2007-02-15 07:36:41 · 9 answers · asked by trouble 4 in Singles & Dating

I am attracted to him in every other way, but sex does not satisfy me. I have afantasy of kind of man I like in bed....I get satisfied by pleasing myself but not with him.

2007-02-15 07:36:31 · 10 answers · asked by wonder 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend who is english and her finance wish to get married in Texas where we live and need to know whether the marriage will be legal back in the UK..

2007-02-15 07:36:19 · 11 answers · asked by linda H 2 in Weddings

I have been single for almost 6 yrs. Every man i date does not seem to want to take the next step in a relationship. (Not marriage)
just a committment. I feel like my guard is so high up there that i am never going to meet anyone. Does anyone have any advice.???

2007-02-15 07:36:10 · 7 answers · asked by Beutifulred10 2 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine who lived for a long time in China and Japan told me that girls there normally don't shave their pubic and they're quite furry down there especially considering that they don't have much corporal hair.

2007-02-15 07:35:02 · 11 answers · asked by jczapa7 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 07:34:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tell me why doesn't this boy doesn't dances with me at dances. He stares at me alot. But I think he dances and flirts with other girls to make me feel bad. ADVICE NOW PLEASE

2007-02-15 07:33:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 07:33:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please help me don't just say IDK.

2007-02-15 07:33:33 · 9 answers · asked by Jim M 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this mate, and when were at school she ditches me all the time to hang around with these popular girls and then when she wants to she'll come back to me. I want to still be her mate but i don't no how to tell her it anoys me what do i say?

2007-02-15 07:33:03 · 8 answers · asked by bex_xoxo 2 in Friends

extraordinary

2007-02-15 07:32:17 · 57 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 4 in Singles & Dating

I asked him to open them and he said no, but I will if you really want me to! so I text him and said I was upset, now he hasn't text me back! confused!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-15 07:32:12 · 20 answers · asked by Bluebird 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my boyfriend and i have had problems before this is our 2nd time together, ill admit it i left him the first time and now he is like thinking that im going to do it again, we were on the phone earlier today and he said to me that he had a feeling that i was going to leave him. and last night he looked at me and asked if there was someone else....what should i do!!!!!!!!!!! i love him and dont want to leave him!

2007-02-15 07:32:08 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Ashley♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 07:31:36 · 5 answers · asked by crystal w 1 in Friends

2007-02-15 07:31:10 · 8 answers · asked by maxerr04 2 in Friends

Well. I like these 2 guys...and they like me...but they're b.f.fz! and they made an "Agreement" that neither of them would talk to me or have any contact with me what so ever, and I'm sad because we all were really good friends and i feel as if this whole thing was my fault, and I wanna continue being friends with them but they're not talking to me, and they're not even talking to eachother anymore, and I'm scared and sad, and confused because of this incedent and I see them tomorrow in school 2morrow!! Pleeze help! how do I solve this problem?!?!?!?

2007-02-15 07:30:44 · 4 answers · asked by Liza 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy. Sometimes he texts sometimes he dont. I need him to open up with me.
What can I say? we have went through hey hi whats up for 3 weeks. And going no where

2007-02-15 07:30:43 · 2 answers · asked by baby_rost 3 in Singles & Dating

So, my boyfriend and I live together, and his little brother is coming to visit us tonight. He has ADHD and is on depression medication, and I think some other medications. I feel bad because I dont know how to act around him sometimes. He is usually really down about everything, and telling us about how he gets in trouble all the time, and does drugs ect. He's 16 by the way. I dont have anything against him, I was that age too once. I really want him to be able to trust me, and to feel normal around me, but I dont know how to come across to him like that. Hes a rebel in his family, and my boyfriend is trying to help him out, by hanging out with him. He looks up to my boyfriend SO much. And I feel like he doesnt really care for me. I've never done anything to make him feel like that though to my knowledge. I guess I'm just asking if anyone has advice for me, Id really appreciate it :) thanks so much!

2007-02-15 07:29:47 · 5 answers · asked by shelb 2 in Family

i have a friend who's x will do anything to get her back. he has even gone through the extremes of harming her or a friend of hers. we got the police involved, but then he left town. he still comes back on the weekends and drives by her and my house hoping to see one of us.

2007-02-15 07:29:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and my sons. We see them reguarly at practice daily. My question is if you know that they are not plant or flower people what should i give as a condolence gift? Money, card, book any suggestion would be great. Will be going there in a couple of hours i should have asked sooner.

2007-02-15 07:29:38 · 12 answers · asked by therealskeptic@sbcglobal.net 2 in Family

When I was 15 my mom commited suicide (addiction problems)and my father died in cancer a few months later. Was sent to a foster home by the social services. It was terrible there, they treated me very badly. Left when I was 18, have gotten a job and an apartment now. Feels like I've missed out on a big chunk of teen age life, like fx dating, girlfriends and such. My life feels very hard and extremely lonely.
Am afraid that my experinces have made me into an unlovable who cant fucntion with other people. I suffer from social phobia, trouble trusting other people etc. Is currently on antidepression meds + counselling.
Dunno what my question is, maybe will I always be lonely the rest of my life? Should I be worried, will I never have a family of my own?

Thought Id ask the world for some advice.

2007-02-15 07:29:09 · 7 answers · asked by fred 2 in Friends

if maybe you and your man was going through, and you, out
of anger and selfish cheated, and he stay with you afterwards
years later and you know he started messing with someone
too. and recently you found out his cheating made another child
during the whole time we was still physical, my thing is i
know i was wrong but why did he stay? and he could,nt have
left that,s the worst thing you can do. until this day it is
painful and yes he is still in my life not physical anymore, but
because our child, now we get along for her,but do he deserve
forgiveness of bringing another child here? Any Advice

2007-02-15 07:28:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were long distance and when we started living together I did not enjoy it. I was jsut not used to him. I kind of gave hope and than things became good with us. But still I have mental block that i cannot enjoy sex with him. I try to relax and otherwise we are gret together. We both are attractive and young. I pleasure myself everyday and desire to have sex with my husband, but when you get to it, i end up not enjoying 8 out of 10. I just don;t know why we are incompatible in this arena where we are good together every other way. I hav etold him enough and hurt his ego and now I jsut say positive things to him. Is there a reason why?

2007-02-15 07:28:50 · 4 answers · asked by wonder 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-15 07:27:41 · 1 answers · asked by Denise G 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a big self doubter and very sensitive. I do not often go after girls for fear of rejection. I end up only dating girls who go after me. Every serious relationship has gone the same way. She goes after me. She later expects me to be a man but my being a man is not how the relationship began. She ends up dumping me. OR I only date/get close to the big flirts who end up being fickle and breaking my heart. I feel so guilty goin after some girl I like. If she isn’t obviously interested I figure she is annoyed with me and I bug out. It might have come from: my parents telling me its okay for the neighbor girl to beat me up and I don't need to fight back; or the barrage of criticism I received as a child from a parent and then all of my close friends who treated me like crap because my weakness allowed this. I have been working on my crap for years through counseling, good friendships, dating, prayer, spiritual growth, ....etc.... Its easy to tell me to grow a set but how do I do that?

2007-02-15 07:27:37 · 12 answers · asked by lend322 4 in Singles & Dating