I have been single for almost 6 yrs. Every man i date does not seem to want to take the next step in a relationship. (Not marriage)
just a committment. I feel like my guard is so high up there that i am never going to meet anyone. Does anyone have any advice.???
2007-02-15 07:36:10 · 7 answers · asked by Beutifulred10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i could either tell you what you want to hear or the truth
what you want to hear: that the nature of man is one of procration
and spreding his seed is a bit more important than "settling down"
and trying to ask to do so is going against his very nature so it can be done but is diffcult so we have commitment issuses........
the truth: more likely or not they are finding somthing about you they dont like that or you keep stupidly going for the same type of guys guys like a girl to drink and hang out with and have sex with but if your that girl dont expect to get to the next level ever those things make you a great chick to hang out with but not "girlfreind material" so the only 2 things you can do to change this ar either change your self or the guys or going out with it's pretty simple really i think its omse time for a self examintion figure out more about your self to determine whats wrong eithr with you or the turds you been going out with so good luck with that and hope all turns out well
cheers
2007-02-15 07:39:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well of course we can.
Where are you meeting these guys? Losers...
1) Don't be easy. Good men don't want to build long term relationships with easy women.
We want sluts in the bedroom but virgins in the kitchen. Be the virgin...
2) Is there something else about you that is keeping you from finding a good man? And I'm not talking about looks or weight... I'm talking about personality, attitude, life goals. If you want to find a good man, you've got to be a good woman.
Good luck.
Oh, 10 years married tomorrow... So, yes we can.
A~
2007-02-15 07:50:02 · answer #2 · answered by BigMac2xk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chin up sweetie, not all men are like that. Try going to a different place to meet people. Alot of people put up a wall because of past hurts and fears but at a certain time you will drop the wall because it will feel like the right time, when you trust them enough not to hurt you
2007-02-15 07:44:15 · answer #3 · answered by sgreenslade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... perhaps,
They do not want to take the next step with you, due it being YOU.
OR
They do not want to take the next step with anyone.
Talk to your real friends. They may have an opinion since they would know you and your men.
2007-02-15 09:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by Darwin C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are attracting the wrong type of men or you are going about things the wrong way. I dont know if you do, but just take things slow. When you are not looking or expecting it a great thing will come your way.
2007-02-15 07:42:15 · answer #5 · answered by Ronnie Jo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to keep looking. I met a guy a couple of weeks ago and we've already made it clear it's a mutually exclusive relationship.
2007-02-15 07:43:09 · answer #6 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the problem is you,you are too femenist to even get a husband
2007-02-15 10:28:38 · answer #7 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋