hey guys... well...he did not want to be wit me on v-day, and he ditches me for his friends all the time!!!!! what do i do ?????i hate this!!!!
2007-02-15 07:37:31 · 24 answers · asked by Dopie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like a jerk, dump him.
2007-02-15 07:40:54 · answer #1 · answered by revoltix 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen if you are in high school he ditches you for his friends because they are more important to him then you. This is why you don't need a boy friend in HS or College. If he ditched you on V day it because his was with a different girl.
Don't stay in bad relationships, life is too short.
Ignore him.....Assume you are over and start dating other people. When he asks say you are seeing someone else......If you are or not.
2007-02-15 07:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by brooklyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honey, I hate to say this but you need as new boyfriend. He is just stringing you along. You could do much better. It is okay for him to be with his friends sometime but you guys should spend some QT too. The fact that he didn't want to be with you on Valentine's Day could mean that he spent it with someone else. You might want to explore other options.
2007-02-15 07:41:53 · answer #3 · answered by feather-girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. If Valentine's Day is important to you then he should have been there. And since he has a pattern of "ditching you for his friends" he's not worth it. He must think he's the greatest thing ever. Trust me, he's not.
2007-02-15 07:41:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just a player and a manipulator|
You are in for terrible grief if you get more involved with him|
Go with someone who is considerate of your needs and feelings|
But don't go with someone who has no independence of his own and always does what you want or always agrees with you to be with you| In a way, he has to be able to stand up to you and disagree with you on principle where it is warrented|
Its a matter of finding the right balalnce|
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2007-02-15 07:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by Catholic Philosopher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a responsible bf doesn't act that way. you shouldn't be the one who he can fall back only when he is bored. he should do whatever he can to make you happy (eg. by being with you on v-day) if he can't do that...just let turn around and let it go.
there are many guys out there who would love to all the things that you like.
2007-02-15 07:42:16 · answer #6 · answered by just a girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this what you should do. you should leave him becouse he don't respect you and you don't need him i am tell you this becose you a woman and he all ways doing you wrong i am a guy too so take what i say a leave him there is some guy out here better then him but its up to you if you do go with i say i hope you find nother bf
2007-02-15 07:49:09 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. LOVE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him but you dont deserve to be treated like that!And if he doesnt want to be with you on the only day of the year that is special for couples he doesnt sound like a keeper!
2007-02-15 07:53:48 · answer #8 · answered by cutiepie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didnt want to hang out on VDAY thats bull! I dont know what to say other than if your not happy ditch him!
2007-02-15 07:40:57 · answer #9 · answered by C'Vale Chick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop him like a bad habit and find a man that deserves you. This guy is messing around with you.
2007-02-15 07:41:59 · answer #10 · answered by kungfumasterzod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another boyfriend. You don't deserve it and if he is doing it now, it won't get better after you have been together longer. Find someone who wants to spend time with you.
2007-02-15 07:39:40 · answer #11 · answered by Christina 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋