okay i like this boy alot....and i want to ask him out and my mom's just fine with that..... but i can't e-mail or call or go on a date with him i dont think thats all that bad (i dont get the phone thing but i'm not gonna push it) cause i can still hang out with him @ school
pretend you're in his place would you be willing to go out with someone those guidelines or would you think it'd be a waste of time?
be honset....
2007-02-15 07:18:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow okay your mom has some guidelines but work with your guidelines. Your mom knows nothing about this boy and she should get to know him so you can go on a date.
ask your mom if you can have a friend to come over after school one day. while your mom is there. Tell him you like him and you want her to meet him so she can feel that you guys arent doing anything you shouldnt be doing.
I bet once your mom meets your crush and he comes over and shows that he likes to be around your family and just haingout watching movies then maybe she will let you go to the movies by yourslef with him cause she can now trust you.
guidelines suck I was once in your shoes but you just have to work with them.
good luck
2007-02-15 07:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by allie laught alot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are he has the same guidelines as you. If he does say "no". It's not the end of the world. In a while you will have those guidelines changed. I had lots of crushes in 6th grade but I wasn't allowed to go out with anyone and I'm glad I didn't because I'm still friends with the friends I had back then just because we hung out so much and complained about not dating!
2007-02-15 07:25:38 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son is in sixth grade. He has a girlfriend and they mostly see each other at school. Sometimes we invite her to come places with our family and sometimes they invite my son to go with them. It isn't a date, but they spend time doing fun stuff. They don't talk on the phone and they don't email.
I think it is fine, those are good boundaries and you have good parents. Ask mom if it would be okay to invite him along some time when your family goes somewhere. Good Luck.
2007-02-15 07:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im in the 7th grade hunn and last year my mom would not let me talk to boys on the phone or go to the movies or anything. Just because you cant go on a date with him [[you are to young for that anyways]] doent mean he is a waste of time. especially if you love him.
2007-02-15 07:23:22 · answer #4 · answered by i miss himm.alott? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what other kids in your school do. If other kids can "date" by hanging at the mall or emailing... then this boy might feel like it isn't enough to just see you at school.
Now if he really likes you it still might be ok.
The real question is How much does He Like You?
good luck!
2007-02-15 07:23:10 · answer #5 · answered by insisfun 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At that age, he will probably think it is a waste of time. Also, talk to mom and find out why it is okay to ask him out but not to e-mail or call him. She should not have a problem with those things. Those are ways she can control.
2007-02-15 07:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I don't really think it would be much of a relationship if you only see each other at school. Instead why don't you see if your mom would object to a group outing, like going bowling with a bunch of your friends, girls and boys. Or to the movies, etc. Good luck and God Bless.
2007-02-15 07:30:16 · answer #7 · answered by tersey562 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, well in grade 6 that is basically all you do anyhow. I don't think you have to worry, since grade 6 relationships aren't very serious. If it were me I would just not tell my mom we were going out and hang out with him and call him and such anyway lol. Parents don't always know what's best.
2007-02-15 07:25:11 · answer #8 · answered by smileforawile 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have the same guidelines as you. You would have to tell him that it would only be at school due to the restrictions you have on you. Why did your mother say she was fine with it, but only at school? I think a 6th grader is too young to date just yet anyway.
2007-02-15 07:24:22 · answer #9 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in sixth grade, my boyfriend and I walked home together after school. He lived about 1/2 mile from me, so it wasn't too far. Also, we got together at school events... basketball games and such. But that was as far as it went because my parents and his parents knew we were too young to date. So... dating is out. Your parents have good ground rules, and I'm glad you respect them. Continue to be happy seeing him at school. Maybe you and he could sit together at lunch.
2007-02-15 07:27:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋