ok, my husband has a few best friends, who smack me on the bottom, tell me i'm so sexy and stare at my boobs and make comments right in fron of him and he laughs. I have a guy pal who told me i looked beautiful at my birthday party and my husband punched him in the face and said "How dare you look at my wife that way dude!" Um......why is it ok for his friends...but not mine?
2007-02-15 07:16:43 · 9 answers · asked by Rebekkah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's not okay. It is also not okay for hubby to go around punching other men for innocent comments.
2007-02-15 07:20:25 · answer #1 · answered by eharrah1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it's about the male ego AND jealousy. He KNOWS his friends can't have anything with you which is why he doesn't get upset about things, but if he's a gentelman, he should tell them to stop. Since he doesn't know what your male friends intentions are, that spikes jealousy and the ego,and along with that, insecurity. Some men act out on that and some don't. I would talk to him about it. Is he like this with some of your male friends or just this one? I've dated guys who were like that and it didn't last, either they broke it off or I did. But then again, sometimes men just don't know how to act. ?
2007-02-15 07:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to punch his friends in the face for treating you like a sex object and sexual harrassing you like that - your husband is jealous of people that he can not "control". You need to take control of things and set his behind straight about what is ok and what is not ok in your book not his.
2007-02-15 07:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's more threaten by your guy friend then his friends. Since you're friends with this guy he feels that he is trying to push up on you. - Double Standards. he should be punching his friends in their faces for touching you and then you should punch your husband in his face for letting his friends disrespect you.
2007-02-15 07:22:42 · answer #4 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He trusts his friends.
He probably shows them naked pictures of you also. This is not dissimilar to myself. My wife and I have done some almost swinging with other couples. Other men have performed oral sex on my wife. That did not bother me at all. I knew those guys and knew their intentions. However, she went out with the girls one night, and they all danced with some guys, dancing only, and I was insanely jealous. Go figure.
2007-02-15 07:20:17 · answer #5 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rebekkah, can you imagine what he would do to me if he found out what you and I have been doing behind his back?!? I think we should only see each other once a week - I don't want him to get suspicious...
Btw, does your husband own a gun?
2007-02-15 07:21:42 · answer #6 · answered by Harry Taco 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your husband and his friends are pigs. Drop this loser and company like a bad habit.
2007-02-15 07:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any chances he's not really ok about his friends behavior and then when he heard your friend complimenting you he just couldn't stand it anymore?!
2007-02-15 07:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by kim78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he seems like a gelous prick but he might trust his friends more cuz he knows they'dd never do anything knowing each-other... he doesnt know your friend/trust him
2007-02-15 07:24:12 · answer #9 · answered by cullen_kayne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋