its like this in short he has cheated on me twice but i was hurt by his 2nd affair bocoz the girl was a very nice girl he fooled her financially ,emotionally and phisically h, he owes her money which he says he wiil pay when he has it ,but he is buying furniture for himself . why dosent he pay her? .i didnt leave him bcoz i was too weak and too much in love with him at that point of time but eversince then things have never been the same for me this was more than a year ago but now i am finding it difficult to forget it i loose my head when i think about it and what he did to that girl .ok i come from a well to do familly so sometimes i doubt whether he even loves me plus he is totally unromantic he dosent do little things that make a girl feel good i dont mean expensive gifts but 1 rose, a unexpected token of love ,dinners ,goin to movies,but when i say this he says you come from a better familly you do it i would but i am aware of his nature i am scared it has to be from both sides
2007-02-15 07:27:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
am i wrong in expecting this ok he is not well off like me but he is earning well and many guys who come from different cities have financial difficulties he is still not on roads . we are both into modeling so there is no certainty of work agreed but he can do little things why do i have to tell him these things he has changed a lot but these things bother me a lot he totally lacks gesture and chivillry and offlate i have started likeing this guy why is this happening ?why?is this bcoz i am angry inside and i dont trust him or bcoz i dont love him anymore what should i do
2007-02-15 07:35:31 · update #1
Are you asking whether you should stay with him? Cuz you're only in for a world of hurt if you do.
2007-02-15 07:32:09 · answer #1 · answered by selena n 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i suppose u r going wong. One day he will destroy u. I understand leaving somebody is very difficult but u have to be strong. Don't destroy urself n ur family. with u many people are attached. Life is little selfish i know, few things happen in our life, where we got confused, we feel weak. But on that stage if we will not help ourselves then anybody can come n destroy us. Be strong n leave him immediatelt. U have the example in front of u. Then what teh hell u r waiting for??
All teh Best
2007-02-17 05:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by sanna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some boys are unbelieveable. but life is full of such characters. To have have some one close is to fool self. try to be more practical. What he does should be verified.
Seeing is not fact. life is more in store.
take life one step at a time or have no BF at all
2007-02-15 17:36:26 · answer #3 · answered by sri577201 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds to me like you need to get a new bf..
The reason you feel attracted to this other guy...is because your boyfriend has hurt you..and this other guy is nice to you.
You boyfriend has cheated on you twice... theres no need to give him a 3rd chance.
He obviously doesnt care..otherwise he wouldnt of done it a second chance.
He is not loyal..and you need to get out of this relationship.
I know it will hurt loosing him..because you still have feelings for him..but in the end..it will be for the best.
Goodluck.
2007-02-15 19:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him.. first of all, he's a cheater... secondly he doesn't sound like he's that crazy about you... sorry. If he cheats and buys you things then tells you that you should since you have money, then he's not interested in you the way you want him to be...
2007-02-15 15:33:29 · answer #5 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he is taking you for a ride to nothingness. Better leave him at once before he drops you like a hot potato for someone he finds more useful than you.
2007-02-15 15:34:28 · answer #6 · answered by mcmohan40 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
OMG grow up and dump the prick, get a life of your own.
2007-02-15 18:28:44 · answer #7 · answered by picture 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIS BUTT!!! HE CHEATED ON YOU! dont let someone take advantage of u like that girl stay strong!!!
2007-02-15 16:23:09 · answer #8 · answered by Summer<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't feel anything , leave him alone . Better off that way trust me . Less stress is best.
2007-02-15 15:30:35 · answer #9 · answered by imbossy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WAT IS UR QUESTION AGAIN?
2007-02-15 15:33:27 · answer #10 · answered by SW_GURL19 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋