She is the most stunning girl i have ever seen and thats an understatement. We are both are in the same grade of highschool and had some classes together last semester. We were both part of the same swim team. We have each others email and talk to each other a bit. We talk about of a variety of things. The problem is at school i have trouble talking to her as i said before because she is very pretty. There also is this guy who hangs out with her alot and they flirt alot. Me and her flirt on msn but not that much but i have trouble doing it in person. One look in to her beutiful brown eyes makes me feel so small that i just end up saying nothing they remind of that song called brown eyed girl. We no longer have classes with each other and only see each other at band and we play different instruments.Should i ask her out?????? And if i did i would want it to be really romantic but i dont know if i could work up the courage. I have asked this before but i want alot of answers.
2007-02-15 07:17:54 · 8 answers · asked by wassup 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say go for it!!!
if you feel so strongly towards her, then you should ask her out, the worst she can say is no...right?
if you wanted it to be romantic, get her some flowers (ones she likes) and give them to her and then ask her out.
But if you make the asking of a date romantic, she will prolly be expecting the date to be even better!! so i hope you have a good idea for it
2007-02-15 07:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations, man. It sounds like you've got your first case of the "Love Jones." I'm not saying you're in love with her or that you love her, but it's obvious you're taken by her. The best thing to do is tell her how you feel. Don't try to be cool, or clever. Just be yourself. Tell her exactly what you've told us: that she's the most stunning girl you've ever seen, that her she makes you feel small when you look into her eyes. It may be embarassing but trust me, she'll think it's really sweet. Letting a girl know that she honestly makes you weak in the knees is a HUGE turn on for them. This other guy she flirts with may feel the same way you do, but if he's always trying to be Mr. Cool, it will stay at flirting and possibly decline as time drags on. Why? Because she's unaware that she takes his breath away. Beat this other guy to the punch and tell her she makes your heart race and see what happens. Good luck, man.
2007-02-15 07:32:30 · answer #2 · answered by Eddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in highschool everything is so weired. like once your out of high school you get to see things for how they really are, so trust me, she is not the only girl in the world, shes just the only girl in your highschool world no what i mean? maybe not but anyway, if she talks to you she likes you a litle bit, no one talks to someone of the opposite sex unless they are a little intrested, if yall flirt a bit then great how fun! she likes you! this other guy is more confidant that you, ive liked shy guys before but never went out with them because they never spoke up they didnt have the cnfidance to ask me out. SOOOO ASK HER OUT!!! You do need to hang around her more in person!! say hi and give her a hug! the only way youll ever know is do it! no regrets!! be comfortable around her, its ok to still be nervous, but just be nervous...and do it anyway!!! especiallyscine yall dont have many classes together you need to do something about it now before someone else scoops her up because you didnt do it first. you never know, she could have been waiting for you to do this for a while now, and maybe she feels your not that into HER because you havnt done anything about it:) DO it now!! hehe good luck:)
2007-02-15 07:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you have heard that nothing ventured, nothing gained. If you never go out on a limb, you will never know. And yeah, it'll suck if she says she isn't interested, but most girls are flattered and will be ever so gentle to let you down. She doesn't sound like the type to be sadistic to poor guys with no nerve. GO FOR IT!
2007-02-15 07:36:39 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop tip toing around, grow a set and ask her out. You won't know the answer until you do. Either she likes you and will go out with you or you are her friend and that is it. Either way you are better off knowing so you can go forward instead of sounding like a girl online.
2007-02-15 07:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by bkweeks2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you ask her out you've got to talk to her in the real world and feel comfortable enough with her to at least talk to her.. if you ask her out how will u ever be able to do anything?? you have to give it a shot becuase if you dont that other dude is going to snatch her or something.. at least if u try u have a chance.. if you dont try u have no chance and it would really suck to miss out on a girl that you care about. good luck =]
2007-02-15 07:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by brittaboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woow! that's adorable! but you really have to learn to start talking to this girl in person before even asking her out. start by telling her you love her eyes, it'll be sweet and sincere. but also, talk with her more in person.
2007-02-15 07:26:23 · answer #7 · answered by sherry312 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her out.
2007-02-15 07:21:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋