I briefly dated a good friend of mine several months ago . He broke up with me over a stupid mistake I made. But we still have become very good friends. (We're both 30 btw)
I still like him a lot and want him (secretly)
Recently he protected me from a crazy guy who was bothering me in the city. He acted fiercely protective (which is funny cause he's so gentle otherwise)
I just found out from friends that he still has feelings for me. But he just got out of a bad dating experience , is busy with writing grad school thesis and Im going to be working 70 hour weeks for next 5 weeks plus have vacation for two weeks in FL.
Should I wait to explore us dating again ? Or go for it now ?
My gut says wait until Spring and if it's meant to be it's meant to be ?
Smart to wait ?
2007-02-15 07:25:24 · 8 answers · asked by MeadowMeade 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that depends on whether or not he'll be quick on the rebound. why don't you talk this over with him and perhaps you can give this a slow re-starting over the next seven weeks. a lot can happen in seven weeks. especially if he's got a nice hat.
2007-02-15 07:29:57 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your intuition is right on the money, honey! I'd wait until things settle down with your schedules. You're both too busy right now for things to start over again and give your full attention to anything. Plus, it's one of those things too, "if it's meant to be, it will be". But keep in mind, you the two of you get back together, it won't be the same as it used to be, since you're both different people with different lifestyles etc.....but give it a shot!
2007-02-15 07:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should put things in order before you leave because you wouldn't like to come back thinking that everything would be back to the way it was in the beginning and some other woman is hooked up under his arm. Then you would loose your chance. Make him understand what you feel for him and that you are willing to try again as well I think that you should be there for him and you'll see things should shape up. Don't leave things unattended and expect everything to be the way that you want it when you come back. Its as though you are leaving a steak on the fire in the wilderness and the wolves are lurking but you go into your tent to sleep. Come on put your things in order and leave nothing unattended this is a race like it or not. Be there for your friend and make him aware of the way you feel.
2007-02-15 07:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by *Pretty In Pink* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deff wait. If he broke up with you ever something little he needs time to re-evaluate what he's priorites are and who he wants to be with. If he got out of a bad dating experience he needs time so that YOU'RE not the rebound. It never hurts to wait
2007-02-15 07:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by capechic13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait til you get alittle more free time like spring after all durning sping love is in the air!!!
Plus if he luvs you that much ( and from the sounds of it he does) he'll be able to wait and the longer you keep him waiting the more he'll want you
2007-02-15 07:34:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, you could wait but in that time he may find someone else. Is he willing to wait for you. And if you didn't wait maybe you guys could meet up sometimes for lunch or something when you get time off...either way...you should proabably let him know.
2007-02-15 07:30:11 · answer #6 · answered by all4him 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down and talk with him it is the only way to go
2007-02-15 07:30:07 · answer #7 · answered by EmmaNicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant wait for spring break, so many single girls! :D
2007-02-15 07:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋