I get confused by some of the responses to my questions. Being friends with a member of the opposite sex doesn't mean I want to cheat on my spouse. I'm perfectly capable of being friends with men and not letting it go too far. I don't have a problem with it, maybe other people do. Should I have to give up my friend because he has a girlfriend? Shouldn't it be up to him and not just his girlfriend? Especially when you have known someone for years and the relationship is completely platonic.
2007-02-15 07:13:01 · 7 answers · asked by Cherrybomb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People who say that you should give up your friends just b/c they're of the opposite sex are insecure and untrusting people... I think it's a good thing to have friends of the opposite sex, whether you're single or not. And no, it doesn't mean you're going to cheat on your husband, it just means you have a guy friend... I'm engaged and my best friend is a guy, and my fiance knows that, he trusts me and my friend, and we don't have feelings for each other like that, so there's absolutely nothing to worry about... if people tell you that, ignore them and brush them off, they're being ignorant..
2007-02-15 07:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the friendship. Especially if you pick up on some chemistry. They may never sleep together, but I don't want my husband spilling his guts to any other woman but me. If it's just a friend from the office, I don't really care about that.
2007-02-15 07:18:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
do not pay attention to those type of people. if you like hanging around your pals, you are free to do so. cos, you love your spouse and that shouldn't affect your relationship with your friends cos you are married.
2007-02-15 07:18:27 · answer #3 · answered by christi t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel jealous then when i am lonely I will start imagining tings then when you get home I will start a fight. then you get slapped, then you call cops and friend then i get even more mad, then I grab baseball bat and beat his head in for coming in between you and me. Before all this happens I will delete my gf. and ask you to delete you bf-f.
2007-02-15 07:22:02 · answer #4 · answered by vulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont have to give up on your great frinedships with men, just make sure your hubby is okay with it. If you are trustworthy, he wont have a problem.
2007-02-15 07:19:04 · answer #5 · answered by Sofia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people have trouble with this type of relationship.
2007-02-15 07:17:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's about possession.
2007-02-15 07:20:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋