2007-02-15 07:09:29 · 46 answers · asked by 1josh2010 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Check the phone records. Follow her out one night. If you already know it, then it shouldn't be hard to catch her in the act...
2007-02-15 07:12:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I learned a lot about cheating once. If there is smoke, there is usually fire! Go to the URL i provided and learn how to get that evidence. ONe thing they advocate is having a friend either follow them and take a pic or you follow in a friend's car and take a pic. ONe piece of advice is that cheating is almost always an addiction and they will hide and deny even with confronted with evidence. It will drive you insane! But there is life after the cheater, I promise.
2007-02-15 07:13:48 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who needs evidence your not going to court are you? just lose the ***** and or tell her you know for a fact and say i saw you or he called your phone and i picked it up then dont go any further just say i know and let her confess if your sure now if your just being paraniod sorry dude you own your own best thing i could figure out is to check her phone a voice mails and emails you can go thru mos phones and find where she dailed teh vioce mail
and her password should be stored under the same number again only when she has dialed the # e-mails are harder you can either get a hacker to do t for you or down load an dictnoary programs from astalavista.com which will run a series of dictonarys of words through the password bar untill it comes up with the right one you shoud just hope that she doesnt have an alpha numeric pass word tha makes this difficult
but really WHO NEEDS EVIDENCE if you feel your being mistreated that would be enough for me to her to the curb
2007-02-15 07:14:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really know it, not just being jealous and insecure, the proof really doesn't mean a hill of beans. I've been in this situation and when you know in your heart that they are cheating, the evidence is already in your heart! Have you talked to her to substantiate your feelings of betrayal? Start there, then just pay close attention to details and if she's cheating, it'll all come out in the wash. When my ex was cheating, I just knew it, had nothing to even base the suspicion on, but I knew it. I kept my mouth shut and paid attention. It wasn't long before it came to a head. I actually planned a weekend visit out of town to a friends house and came back a day earlier that had been planned. I saw all I needed to know. It set him up and I caught him!!
2007-02-15 07:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by georgiarose_01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are truly concerned and the relationship is worth it, then hire a professional. The more important issue is the lack of trust. If you are sure she is cheating, then why continue? Even without evidence, you can end the relationship and move on.
2007-02-15 07:13:24 · answer #5 · answered by fly guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok.. first of all. If you think she is cheating on you why waste yoour time??
But if you really want to catch her.. Have someone call her cell and tell her she just won tickets to her favorite group in concerts and back stage passes.. But she has to bring a date and give the name of the person she will be bringing with to be put on the list.. If it not you the there you go..
2007-02-15 07:17:24 · answer #6 · answered by kandhie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you know she is cheating are you a mind reader?
You should tell her that you think she is cheating and watch the expression on her face and give her eye to eye contact. howerever if she is a professional you wont see an expression, so all you need to do is check her messages and you will really know but please be carefull, if you love her it could hurt if its true. if you find evidence ask her about it and hear her view on it, because it could be a misunderstanding
2007-02-15 07:22:53 · answer #7 · answered by cream 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, i say follow her and see what is up and then confront her about it. or just talk to her and see if she is cheating on u or not. don't go through all the trouble to hire a Private investigator do it ur self. so i say if u can trust her and she trust u and u 2 have been together for a while then she won't need to heat on u at all. good luck hun.
2007-02-15 08:15:07 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you do if you had the evidence? Are you married? And how do you know she's cheating if you don't have evidence? If you are paranoid, territorial and misogynistic then do her a favor and leave her.
2007-02-15 07:14:03 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have a friend call her saying that he's from a credit card appreciation program offering a complimentary "something" to a special person. Make sure your buddy can pull it off and really sells it. Get one of her credit card #'s and write it down for a reference. Then just ask who she'd like the complimentary "Something" to be sent to along with their name, # and address and have a special note attached. If it's not your name and number, you'll have your answer, catch that scheming ***** bro!
2007-02-15 07:14:59 · answer #10 · answered by boogatt66 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not employment - you can dump someone without evidence or a true reason.... she can not sue you. If you "know" that she is cheating than kick her to the curb. Who needs evidence??
2007-02-15 07:12:45 · answer #11 · answered by jessica 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋