when a lady turn 30's is it hard to find a right man to be with or what?? esp if she have some kid/kids??

Answer 1

well, now that you're a little older and wiser, you can accept a man on YOUR terms....cause you would have kids to think of also. Just be very picky....it's better to be single and lonely, then married and miserable. I wish you the best of luck

Answer 2

Depends on the situation. If you and the children`s father are amicable, ( in a good parenting relationship), things should go smoothly. Sometimes men can get intimidated because of constant fighting and bickering going on between two parents. Oh and how many kids do you have? That may be an issue. Some men run off if they see a women with 6 kids. Kids can interfere with the dating process. I mean, " I have to go potty", is hard to listen to when the child isn`t yours. It`s not too romantic. Some men love kids, so you have to listen to clues as to whether they will accept your kids or not. Like for example, when the two of you are in the movie theatre and he sneers at the kids across from you for being a little rambuctious then you know he won`t be there for you in the long run,he may get impatient. I don`t think your age is an issue, many people get involved in serious relationships after thirty.

Answer 3

I turn 30 this year and I have men flockign at my feet and I have kids. So no.

If you're looking for an 18 year old yes, but a real man with some experience who loves children, no.

Answer 4

I always heard it was, but at 36 with 2 kids, Mr. Right came into MY life. I wasn't looking because I didn't expect anyone to accept me AND my kids but maybe that's why he found me! Because I had not placed any emphasis on the matter and truely was not looking to find a man. Out of nowhere almost, the love of my life has entered my life, accepting everything about me, my past, my kids, etc. It's awesome. Good Luck! I hope the right man finds you as well!!

Answer 5

Girl No.

Don't even bite into those lies!!

The right man will come and you will recognize him for many traits and not by your feelings of "Not wanting to be alone".

You are better than that and your kids deserve more than that!!
Just keep yourself together and don't let anything keep you from moving forward.

And you will see that as your life is going on, one day he will show up and be so impressed with how you keep yourself, your kids and your life in Order. That he will be inquiring as to where he needs to put in an application (for your life) to see if he can get in where he fits in!!

Don't lose hope, none of us are meant to be alone! We just don't all have the same timing, but staying the course of moving forward in a positive direction will reward you in more ways than one!!

I hope that this information is helpful to you, and keep your head up because you aiming for the sky!!

Answer 6

No it is not hard for a woman over 30 with kids to find a good man. It depends on the way she feels about herself and if she feels good and confident about herself she will find the right man.

Answer 7

I dont think is any harder then a women in her 20's that has kids. I'm 30 but dont have kids. I think they're are still some good men out their who will have no problems loving you and your children. The thing is not to settle but dont be too picky. LOL!!!

Answer 8

I think your gonna find it is gonna be more difficult, my last girlfriend had two kids girl 15, boy 4, that i had no problam with but some men are funny like that, as for your age your at your peek dont worry about it, some men just dont like to be tied down with kids, good luck dont forget there is someone out there for you.

Answer 9

In my own experience..yes..it gets harder and harder as you get older. I'm 34 and have three kids and its hard to find someone to date a single mother with two kids and two exhusbands.

Answer 10

Of course not you are still very young! Just choose a quality man that treats you kindly!