I've not spoken to my close female friend for 2 months as we got to close.I told her that I wanted no contact so that I could get over my feelings for her. She only wanted to be friends.
I've tried to get bck in touch as I've got over her now and I'm interested in another girl.I've apologised if I wasn't tactful in the way I said I wanted no contact for awhile
She's txt bck:i really do not have the energy to keep explaining things to you.I will be civil but i'm afraid i feel the close friendship is lost...........
Why she like this - she wanted to be friends?
All lost?
Seeing her on Friday-said she'll be civil.Advice on how to cope?
p.s. her comment of not having energy to keep explaining things to me is when she didn't want to further than friends---THAT WAS 3 MONTHS AGO!!!
HOW WILL SHE FEEL SEEING ME ON FRIDAY???
2007-02-15 07:04:18 · 6 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
For some reason she mistook your reasons for ending the friendship as a rejection. Also she is telling you of how tired she is explaining this to you. She is being unfair and I can understand how hurt and confused you must feel. I wonder if you ever did make it clear to her of your desire to get over your feelings for her as the reason for you pulling back from the friendship you two once had? If not, then obviously there is a misunderstanding between you two here. If I were you, I would just txt or email her and say, " I cherished the friendship you and I once had and did not want to jeopardise it due to the special feelings I was having for you since your wishes were for us to just remain friends. I am hurt and confused at your rejection of any attempts I have made to re-establish any kind of friendship with you. For this reason, I will have no choice but to honor your wish to discontinue any friendship between us." and just let it go at that. Concentrate on your new girl and make other friends. Good luck to you!
2007-02-15 07:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting the friendship back will take work but it sounds like she is being sort of a jerk here or she might have a lot going on with herself right now... try your best to be nice and make sure she knows that all you want is friendship. if she pushes you away again then just forget about it... she's the one in the wrong here... not you.
2007-02-15 15:13:50 · answer #2 · answered by runningballerina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that you just want to talk to as friends and that you don't have that feeling of "being more than friends" with her and just wanted to hang out with an old friend, she probably hasn't dropped the whole thing yet and leaving like you did probably didn't help. But you still have a chance to mend what you have messed up. Good Luck!
2007-02-15 15:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by SuNDeViL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not into you. She's not interested in having a friendship with you. She has no desire to be friends with some guy who now has a new girlfriend-- why should she? When she sees you on Friday, she'll probably be indifferent. She's not into you now.
2007-02-15 15:10:00 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will have to work to get your friendship back - if you are interested in someone else then take them with you on Friday. Maybe she will see that you are really only interested in being friends.
2007-02-15 15:08:14 · answer #5 · answered by jessica 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she's thinking that you still have feelings for her. Thats what is sounds like to me. Maybe she doesnt want to be friends anymore. Just asked her and her reasons ..if she's brushing you off then more on.
2007-02-15 15:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋