Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

so theres this one guy that i like, ive never spoken to him, how can i start to talk to gim, please keep in mind that we've never spoken before, he might kno my name, i kno his, how can i impress him, and please dont say, "just ask him out", it doesnt work that way, not that easy, im really shy and quiet person. if i were to write a letter wha can i say, that wont freak im out but will let him kno how i feel. guys, what is something u would expect.?

2007-02-15 08:53:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I do EVERYTHING, I'm a good cook, I clean, I pay my bills, I don't cheat, I have a great sex life, I'm great looking, only 22 years old, make very good money, I don't need or ask men for anything. But they still suck. V-day please, i know it is too much to ask for something nice. When will this change!!!!!

2007-02-15 08:53:34 · 16 answers · asked by tt1984 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been together for 11 years, he's been an addict the entire time. I did file for divorce a 1 1/2 years ago, but never went through with it. We were seperated for almost 1 year at that time. He just came home 3 weeks ago from being at rehab for 5 months. He has already relapsed more than once! IN THREE WEEKS he has already relapsed. I think it may be time to end this marriage, can anyone help me see the light at the end of the tunnel? We have 2 kids 13 & 8.......

Thanks, I appreciate your help.

2007-02-15 08:52:40 · 10 answers · asked by Nichole 1 in Marriage & Divorce

(If this doesn’t apply to you, then good for you.)

Are you married and passionately in love with your spouse, your spouse who says they love you, and YET they have no interest in expressing that love physically through sex? Do they reject your desires, do they act like sex is a chore and a scourge to be avoided at all cost? Is everything else o.k. in the marriage except for this one thing? Did it leave you crushed on Valentines day to be without physical intimacy? Did it hurt extra just because it was Valentine’s day?

2007-02-15 08:52:33 · 14 answers · asked by JRSK007 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i was dating this girl for a while now and we where in love...but later i found out that she have STD..what shoud i do?

2007-02-15 08:52:03 · 10 answers · asked by andrewjumar 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 08:51:35 · 3 answers · asked by bronte d 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 08:51:29 · 14 answers · asked by Survivor 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't know why, I just guess because I've never been and because when it comes to dancing I know about zero to nothing...I just needed to vent and any advice? lol

2007-02-15 08:51:01 · 13 answers · asked by thee_guy 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been married for 3 years and I've had thoughts of leaving my wife for about a year. When I think about it, I get really excited. I can honestly say that if my wife left me, I wouldn't be heartbroken. My wife and I LOT of issues and to be honest with you, I don't think she's aware of them. I try to respectfully let her know but she doesn't seem to get it until I get very quiet (I'm a happy-go-lucky type of guy who is RARELY in a bad mood). After a while, our crappy behavior starts up again. I can't even begin to explain all of our issues to you. Does this mean I don't love my wife? I want to leave but I want to stay...I'm being serious, I am really confused here. Should I leave? Should I stay? Help!!! I can provide more information if needed...

2007-02-15 08:50:54 · 30 answers · asked by Shawn L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-15 08:50:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm so excited - but worried. My best friend has asked me to be in her wedding. The shocker - she wants me to wear a bridesmaid gown. In a way, its not shocking - I'm transgendered and we've hung out alot w/me dressed as a woman - I met her when she was working as the manager of a womens clothing store - we've gone on trips together, nights out, dances, etc. And she told me along time ago - kidded me - that she'd want me to be a bridesmaid if she ever got married. But I'm worried that she's just doing it to be nice - and I'm also worried about offending the older folks and/or detracting from her big day. On the other hand, I don't want to disappoint her - and I'd love it. And people that don't "know" just think I'm another woman. She told me that the other bridesmaids and even her fiance are great w/it. What should I do? Decline and just attend in boy mode? Or do it? I think I'll start by calling one of the other bridesmaids.

2007-02-15 08:50:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

if you have what is it like? what age do you have to be? what is the law? how do you do it? how long does it take to go through? what happen when u are emancipation? for example what do you do??

2007-02-15 08:50:28 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-15 08:50:22 · 2 answers · asked by lil_dee1010 1 in Singles & Dating

I caught a member of my family being inappropriate with a child. I turned him into the police. Now everyone in my family wont speak to me. They all think Im lying, crazy, on drugs, made it up, ect. I moved away because I couldn't deal with all the rejection. It has been 8 months. The person I turned in was not charged, apparently the police didnt believe me either. I really believe what I saw was real, and I didn't make a mistake. I don't know what to do, I have heard all kinds of rumors that this person has started about me, and they are very hurtfull and vicious. I have not even tried to defend myself. I did confront this person before turning them in. It was that conversation that led me to realize the police were my only option. I love my family, and I dont want this to ruin the relationships I have with them, it already has; but is there anything I can do to fix it?

2007-02-15 08:50:19 · 14 answers · asked by Erin 3 in Family

i am dating this guy he said he will "kick my ***" if I played tennis with him laughingly . what did he mean by this ? is "Kick you *** " common term used for girls also ? did he mean to disrespect me ?

2007-02-15 08:50:13 · 30 answers · asked by adf a 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy has been insisting to go out with him..so yesterday he kep on insisting and insisting and insisting so I finally said yes...BAD IDEA! especially since it was valentine's day! I'm really not interested in him and i told him before going to the restaurant that I didn't want a relationship right now so he agreed that we would just be talking. So at the restaurant he told me that he thought I was someone special to him and so on... he wanted to cuddle and hug but i just kept on avoiding him so yesterday was barely our first date and he was calling me nonstop in the night..in the morning he called me again and we went out to lunch again today...Again i told him that we're just friends but he's already like planning our "next dates"..

HELP! I'm not interested in him..I don't want nothing to do with him..i don't want a relationship right now..i just want to focus on my studies...but he keeps on calling and obsessing over me.

what do can i do to make him stop liking me?

2007-02-15 08:50:12 · 37 answers · asked by ♥ mars♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

Im a guy. My good friend is 25 n a girl. We live together but have never dated or anything. We innocently flirt, tease each other n even play fight - where she grabs my chest n stuff all the time. Right now she sleeps in my bed with me at night cause her basement bedroom is too cold. We're both single but she likes to hang with her guy friends whens he can (she has more guy friends than girl friends). Her and I have decided to move to a city 8 hrs away that we both used to live in (but at different times). I told her I need about a yr to make it happen n she nodded her head n said "Yeah, I told people at work that Im not moving out there unless my roommate does."

I was flattered by the comment but at the same it sort of made me feel weird. Why such a commitment and connection with me? What is with her comment? Seemed a tad weird.

2007-02-15 08:50:10 · 7 answers · asked by Joe A 1 in Singles & Dating

okay my cousin is coming from New York tomorrow and my aparment is a pig pen!!! i always clean up the house but my mother (who is a slob) comes and messes it up then it goes back to looking junky!!! how can i get her to stop doing this?? MY COUSIN LIVES IN A HUGE CLEAN AND TIDY HOUSE!
i tryed talking to her but she just walks away or contiues doing so
my dad does not care
how can i get my mom to help me clean the house up and still keep it clean????


my cousin is staying here from Friday at 7:00 to Monday at 2:00

2007-02-15 08:50:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Should I ignore her or is she even my friend? Someone please HELP!!!!!!

2007-02-15 08:48:34 · 11 answers · asked by Kaitlyn A 1 in Friends

Does anyone know of any web sites that you can design own wedding invites then print?

2007-02-15 08:48:21 · 10 answers · asked by fairylandk 3 in Weddings

i'm too shy to tell my boyfriend to have intercourse with me. And because i'm too shy, should i tell him to "RAPE ME"? by the way we havn't had intercourse before.

2007-02-15 08:46:59 · 9 answers · asked by US 4 1 in Singles & Dating

(are we free to choose our life-partner,(spouse)? or we get married to a person that God has decided for us before our birth(matter of luck-fate)???which fact is true? can U solve my confusion...do i have to struggle to find my life-partner or should i wait for God's will and let the person come himself on specific time when God wants?

2007-02-15 08:46:37 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I love him with all my heart, no we don't have any kids together, but I still want to be in the relationship with him.

Should I let him go and be happy ?
Or continue to try and maybe I can change his mind?

2007-02-15 08:46:06 · 30 answers · asked by Berryblue 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi my name is Amy. My parents beat me. I dont knwo what to do. My report card is comign again and it is not good. I think i might not get promoted. If idont get promoted i am going to get beat. I dont want to get beat what do i do?

2007-02-15 08:46:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

yesterday was valentines day and my homie told me that valentines day sux and that he dont care 4 it after i told him that it ment alot 2 me lol all n all i need a man a real one who can show me the lil things count 2

2007-02-15 08:45:55 · 4 answers · asked by batmans_baby69 1 in Singles & Dating

It's for a wedding... I wasn't really sure? Do you think an updo would be cute with some curls haning down in the front off to the side. Or do you think a thick head band with my hair scruched would be cute, but that's how I wear my hair every day so I want to do something different.

2007-02-15 08:45:32 · 5 answers · asked by Blue eyed girl 2 in Weddings

i want him to ask me out im in love with him i m tryin my level best but him ughh guys i really need help gimme as much advice as possible wat can i do ?????? im so confused..when people tell him that i like him he tends to go watever why do i care and stuff but he tends to sit around me talk to me flirt hang wit my friends spend as much time as me sometimes i feel az if hez scared to comfront or talk to me wat can i do

2007-02-15 08:45:17 · 9 answers · asked by Sexilicious!!!!!!!!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 08:45:01 · 13 answers · asked by Secret W 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a pretty long story that needs to be condensed. My wife and I are in couples therapy. We are going through the first big hurdle in our relationship after seven years and four kids. I was very stressed out over the last month or so- intense work related problems, trouble with a very good friend I have known since HS, four kids, plus my wife has gone away to two conferences for the first time ever, as she is getting more independent. Some of her actions were disturbing, she lied to me about two of these guys being gay- and I snooped into her email account and looked at her phone 2X. I told her I did as it made me feel like crap and now we are barely talking. It has been a week of ice cold- but I am giving her the space she has asked for. We had planned to go to a romantic overnighter and I asked her if she still thought it was a good idea day before yesterday and she said, "We always have wanted to go, so lets do it." I dont want to do more damage. What should I do?

2007-02-15 08:44:56 · 12 answers · asked by findingselflove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I often have sex on the first date with a girl usually the same day i meet her. The biggest problem im having is just before we're about to have sex. Its like they come into my home knowing what i want, but when i try to make my move they get sort of resistant to having sex. What should I do?

2007-02-15 08:43:56 · 22 answers · asked by puapuaoasislover 1 in Singles & Dating