I often have sex on the first date with a girl usually the same day i meet her. The biggest problem im having is just before we're about to have sex. Its like they come into my home knowing what i want, but when i try to make my move they get sort of resistant to having sex. What should I do?
2007-02-15 08:43:56 · 22 answers · asked by puapuaoasislover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Notice and listen to their resistance. It's not right, fair, mature, or sometimes even moral or legal to push or force the act.
2007-02-15 08:47:45 · answer #1 · answered by Buying is Voting 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I had sex with a guy on the first date it meant that i didnt like him. I would pull away just to play hard to get. If you are interested in the girl then dont go for it. If you are just looking for sex and so is she then play into her game and let her make the first move. If she keeps insisting no then take the hint and take a hike.
2007-02-15 08:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by Worried wife 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex on the first date. Allow the time to get to the know them and enjoy them for who they are not for the sexual genitalia they possess. There are women out here that will not sleep with a man since they don't know them. They don't know who you've been with, and what if anything you have that could kill them. You need to be careful out here people are dying off like flies and I hate to read/see another life be lost b/c of the some disease they contracted from enjoying lifes pleasure - "sex".
Enjoy your life and its company but keep it CLEAN!!!
2007-02-15 08:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by sweetladie125 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex on the first date! Get to know the girl. She could have an STD for goodness sacks.
2007-02-15 08:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by sanj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STOP having sex on the first date
2007-02-15 10:40:55 · answer #5 · answered by Jane_Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex on the first date, what type of girls do you date, no wonder they are starting to resist change your ways or you may actually rape someone.
2007-02-15 08:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop making a move on the first date.
2007-02-15 08:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by lunasage 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should stop having sex on the first date and slow it down. You can't have any valuable relationships by doing that. Sounds like your being WAY too aggressive. That could lead to date rape. Calm it down.
2007-02-15 08:46:56 · answer #8 · answered by AmandaHugNKiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and learn some respect. Also learn that NO means NO or your going to wind up being charged with rape and saddled with a sexual predator label for the rest of your life.
I am curious, do you ever get any second dates?
2007-02-15 08:49:31 · answer #9 · answered by Dane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They feel uncomfortable, they think you will only like them if they give to your wants...which gives them second thoughts, making them sort of resistant. Be careful, slow down and let them know that it's them that you care about and not their body, your wants, and sex.
2007-02-16 11:18:05 · answer #10 · answered by Reyanne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋