i am dating this guy he said he will "kick my ***" if I played tennis with him laughingly . what did he mean by this ? is "Kick you *** " common term used for girls also ? did he mean to disrespect me ?
2007-02-15 08:50:13 · 30 answers · asked by adf a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he just meant he was going to beat you in the game stop over reacting ok
2007-02-15 08:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is disrespectful and girls and women who accept this treatment allow many disrespectful things occur to their bodies as well. What he meant was that he will win the game with a very high score. He probably didn't mean to disrespect you because he is ignorant and stupid. You can confront his bad behaviour or choose to ignore it. The choice is yours.I hope you kick his @ss in tennis, Have a great day.
2007-02-15 08:57:15 · answer #2 · answered by firestarter 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't really like it if male/or female uses disrespectful comments and hides behind the I am just joking, especially if there are others around. Tell him it bothers you he keeps it up kick him to the curb, for someone that will respect you...That's what is going wrong in the world today,no respect any more....
2007-02-15 08:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by mean evil woman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didn't mean anything disrespectful by it. He probably meant that he wants to tap that A** after the tennis match. Make sure you wear a short skirt without any underwear. That's hot.
2007-02-15 09:08:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When my husband and I first starting dating, sometimes we played cards. He would say that to me sometimes... meaning he would win easily at cards. Let me tell you, this is a man who respects women 100% and would never hurt a fly. I'd challenge him to that tennis match and see whose buttocks takes a beating !! Girl Power !!! Go out and represent !!
2007-02-15 08:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just playing around - I tell my bf that I'm gunna kick his *** in a kidding way all the time. It's not disrespectful (in my opinion).
2007-02-15 08:53:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he didn't mean any disrespect, he is just showing off his manly ego and his competitiveness. It is a very common term.
2007-02-15 08:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah that is majorly disrespectful. It's okay if a guy says that to another guy but to his gf....that's messed up. He should've sed Ohh i'm gonna cream u or something but saying i'm gonna kick ur @$$....that's really rude.
2007-02-15 08:54:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally I would say that it is disrespectful. However, in the circumstance that you are talking about it, I believe it is a joke.
2007-02-15 08:53:37 · answer #9 · answered by pisceswomanem 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a matter of taste. To me, he wasn't being disrespectful, he was being crude. I wouldn't want either of my kids (teenaged boys) speaking to a girl that way.
2007-02-15 09:30:04 · answer #10 · answered by knitsafghans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No disrespect at all. He is trying to convey that if you challenge him, you will be beaten at tennis so their is no point in trying.
2007-02-15 08:53:20 · answer #11 · answered by larry7crys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋