Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

2007-02-15 08:23:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 08:22:08 · 15 answers · asked by BlahBlahBlah 2 in Weddings

I've been friends with this guy that only speaks Spanish for a year. I speak Spanish and English so we can communicate. We always have a good time together and I am really conflicted because I love him so much, but I am reserved because I don't want my heart to break. Recently (past two months) he's been pursuing a relationship. We had a big misunderstanding that was neither of our faults and everything worked out. He came to me knowing I was upset and has written me two heartfelt letters. He told me that he fell in love with me and that he doesn't want sex (he knows I am waiting) but loves me for my heart. I told him I don't want my heart to break and he promised he would never want to break my heart. He told me that he thinks about me all the time and he loves me and just wants me to feel the same and he always wants to kiss or hug. I know Latin's are generally more affectionate and he has told me "te quiero" and "te amo" and I know 'te amo' is very serious.

2007-02-15 08:21:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They grew up in White bear lake MN and graduated in the late 90's. Does anyone know how to get a hold of one of them? Email address? Or could you pass an email address to one of them?

2007-02-15 08:20:54 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-15 08:20:39 · 5 answers · asked by xavier 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why would some people say it's okay? And why would some say it's wrong because it's incest?

2007-02-15 08:20:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 08:20:22 · 1 answers · asked by ღ 4 in Singles & Dating

Should I seek a sex buddy?

2007-02-15 08:20:12 · 6 answers · asked by Aout 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 08:20:07 · 3 answers · asked by ♥Nana♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

haven't had a bf in abt a year and v-day just rolled around and i figure it's time to get out there and i'm ready for major fun...i'm lookin for some crazy hot fun ideas

2007-02-15 08:19:53 · 3 answers · asked by paige_boman 1 in Singles & Dating

are there any of you who would prefer a man to work outside the home as a good provider, but also take on the traditional role of the housewife? This arrangement would essential have the "boywife" willingly perform the cooking, cleaning, laundry, and other household tasks as well as answer to you as the bottom line authority in the house. That the "head" of the household would be you. There are men out there who long for such an arrangement. I would like to know if any women sought such an arrangement.

2007-02-15 08:19:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 08:19:19 · 12 answers · asked by Giegiesweet 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm an active duty military member stationed in California. My spouse filed for divorce and is requesting spousal support. Can someone tell me if the state of California uses BAH and/or BAS to calculate spousal support or just basic pay. Any online reference or California Family Code law reference would be appreciated. Thanks in advance.

2007-02-15 08:19:12 · 4 answers · asked by lobosrsk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We had a court hearing and the judge ordered alimony of $750 per month for 2 years. My wife said she didn't want it so the judge so the judge didn't put it in the order. My wife is now saying that she wants it. Is that possible or will the judge say it's too late?

2007-02-15 08:19:11 · 6 answers · asked by Michael W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-15 08:19:06 · 10 answers · asked by zachy b 1 in Singles & Dating

she told me that there were alot of boys that loved her and wrote to her very bad words and i discovered that these things is not real
when i told her she said that she was unconscious when she told me that she was really thought that these things had happened

2007-02-15 08:18:58 · 8 answers · asked by mesa 1 in Singles & Dating

Some marriages are short lived and some are "til death do us part". What are the key ingredients to the latter? What are the husbands responsibilities and what are the wifes? or Is it all just plain luck?

2007-02-15 08:18:50 · 12 answers · asked by JV 5 in Marriage & Divorce

here is the story in a nutshell or a close as possible...
My sister had a boyfriend...he cheats on her with random girl...both find out...he begs for forgiveness...they go back together only to find out he is begging the other girl at the same time..guess he wanted two girlfriends...
They both dump him and become good friends...
after a while, the guy wants the random girl back again and she goes back to him...my sister tells the girl she cannot be friends with her anymore because of obvious reasons and wishes her well...my sis moved away and as expected random girl and the guy's relationship goes kaput!...
Now here is where I go in the picture...would it be bad of me to party with random girl?? Is that messed up as a sister??

2007-02-15 08:18:03 · 14 answers · asked by red_klinik 2 in Singles & Dating

My Mom just got back from Iraq in Oct. and now my Dad's leaving for Iraq. I'm totally depressed. I'm an only child so, it's not like I have some help in dealing with it. Please. Help

2007-02-15 08:17:58 · 8 answers · asked by Steven's Girl♥ 5 in Family

Was he flirting?

I take my car to the shop for one problem, the guy checks it out and does a complete inspection of my car and repairs those problems too. He says its covered by warranty, and the total cost covered was almost $3,000 worth of repairs BUT he only charges me for what I brought the car in for - only $100.

He walks me to my loaner vehicle and is walking extra close to me, then he chats me up about what could be wrong with the car and blushes a few times during our conversation.

I also get a call back from him the day AFTER I pick up the car. He says I picked up the car AFTER he got off work and he was checking up on me to see how everything was going, and to bring it back if I had any concerns and they'd take a look at it.

Is this just good customer service or Does he sound interested?

How should I approach this, he's a cute and nice guy. Those types are really rare!

2007-02-15 08:17:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Almost two years ago my grandmother died of a serious Heart Attack,a few days later her widower had a massive stroke that left him imobalized for a year until his death last summer.They were my dads parents,my parents are divorced,and my dog of 5 years died 3 weeks ago.

My moms parents who are about the same age are not real healthy,they live happily together about 10 miles away.They are both diabetics.My grandpa (moms dad)has had serious heat problems for a long time,hes had bypasses and countless precedures and surgerys,he also has a pacemaker.My grandma is healthier but still has trouble getting around.They both have appoitments with various doctors on a daily basis.

I saw them before the deaths of my dads parents once every two weeks now its about 4 times every two weeks(at least im honest)what do I do now?How do I deal with the loss of two grandparents and when my remaining two are no longer here?
What can I do now to prevent me from becoming more heart broken.

2007-02-15 08:17:38 · 4 answers · asked by Aces747 2 in Family

ok well me and my boyfriend have been going out for a month now.
he used to be a bull rider and got hurt really bad .now he has heart prob. the doc. gave him two years to live.he asked me to marry him i said yes.we planed to get married in 4 years but now that this has happened i dont know wat to do.i dont know what to say to him. i need help should i just comfort him ?

2007-02-15 08:16:52 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know a couple where the "wife" wishes to continue using her "husband's" last name for career purposes.

2007-02-15 08:16:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not planning to date a nun, but I'm curious in what you all have to say.

2007-02-15 08:16:33 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Now I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months. We have sex all the time and I never have problems in reaching my peek...now lately for the past week, it's not the same and it's frustrating for him, and not so much for me, but...has this happened to anybody before?
No dirty answers! Be real!

2007-02-15 08:15:43 · 20 answers · asked by lotsofluv007 4 in Singles & Dating

there is two guys i like but how can i chose!!

2007-02-15 08:15:40 · 7 answers · asked by Brianna Silva s 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 21, married, with a 5 month old son. My husband is abusive. He's also kept me locked in the house for two years, and cut off all my contact with friends. He also cheats.

I'd like to get a divorce. But I'm currently in the middle of immigration. If we break up now, I have to leave the country. That means a custody battle over my son, who was born here. Also, my having been locked away for two years while my husband worked, isn't going to look good in the "responsibility" area. Fair enough except that my husband honestly doesn't give a damn about his son, and will waste his last cash on booze while I'm scraping pennies out of the couch for baby formula. I can't leave my son with that.

I also have no cash of my own, and no access to his.

I need out of this situation before it breaks me, and I don't know how. Any ideas, any knowledge of divorce/custody proceedings and my chances, would be very very much appreciated.

2007-02-15 08:14:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I are moving into our apartment next month. He has today off work, and are going to hang out. But we are trying to save money, so we will probably be hanging out at my grandmothers (where i live currently) all day. He's worked 10 days straight, and will be very tired. we will probably watch a movie, but that will only take up 2 hours of the day. any other idea's of stuff we could do with out spending money?

2007-02-15 08:14:39 · 14 answers · asked by March Mommie 07 3 in Singles & Dating

DIARY OF A MAD BLK WOMAN :( (Read this)


I DON'T BELIEVE THIS ****. AFTER ALL WE'VE BEEN THROUGH

TOGETHER, AND AFTER ALL I'VE DONE FOR him AND THIS

IS THE THANKS I GET. 8 ******' YEARS DOWN THE DRAIN. 8

******' YEARS I'VE WASTED. FOR 8 YRS he has WALKED ALL

OVER MY HEART. TOOK MY LOVE FOR GRANTED. I GAVE him

MY HEART AND he SHREDDED IT LIKE IT WAS NOTHING.I LOVED

him WHEN ALL he DID WAS HURT ME. NAW U KNOW WHAT

**** IT he DON'T DESERVE ME ANYWAY. HOW COULD I HAVE

BEEN SO DAMN STUPIT TO HAVE PUT UP WIT THIS BULLSHIT 4

THE PAST 8 YRS. I STILL CAN'T BELIEVE THAT he DID THIS

BULLSHIT 2 ME. KNOWING THAT THERE WAS NOTHING THAT I

WOULDN'T HAVE DONE FOR him. YOU KNOW WHAT THAT *****

CAN HAVE his SORRY ***. BUT LET ME TELL U 1 THING he's

GONNA MISS MY LOVE. SO he can GO AHEAD n DO him CAUSE I 'M GONNA DO

ME. AND I WILL BE MOVIN' ON AND I WON'T BE LOOKIN' BACK.

YEA IT MAY TAKE A WHILE BUT SOONER ARE LATER ALL BRUSES WILL HEAL BRUSES WILL HEAL ,AND THIS PAIN WILL FADE.

LOOK IT'S NOT THE FACT THAT I DON'T LOVE U NO MORE I

JUST REALLY NEED TO BREAK THIS BAD HABIT. I REALLY HATE

THAT IT HAS TO END LIKE THIS BUT IT HAS TO. I CAN'T GO ON

LIKE THIS I'M TIRED OF BEING HURT AND MY EYES ARE ALL OUT

CRYS. MY HEART CAN'T TAKE NO MORE PAIN. IT'S TIME TO START

THINKIN ABOUT ME AND WHAT IT IS THAT I WANT.AND WHAT I

WANT IS 2 B HAPPY.EVEN IF THAT MEANS BEING SINGLE 4 THE

REST OF MY LIFE. I AM A DAMN GOOD WOMAN AND I DESERVE A

GOOD MAN. ONE WHO'S GONNA TREAT ME RIGHT, LOVE AND

RESPECT ME AND I'LL DO THE SAME IN RETURN.

BLESSINGS COMES WITH PAITENTS AND IN TIME GOD WILL SEND

ME MY MR.RIGHT. NO I DON'T HATE U, YEA U HURT ME BUT

INSTEAD OF BEING PISSED OFF AT U I'M JUST GONNA USE THIS AS

A LESSON LEARNED. I'M GONNA B THE BIGGER PERSON AND SAY

I'M NOT GONNA HOLD NO HATERED TOWARDS U AND STILL WISH

U WELL WITH WHATEVER U DO AND I HOPE U LEARN FOR THIS AS WELL. :( :)

LADIES IF YOU YA FEEL ME HIT ME UP,I REALLY NEED SOME SUPPORT RIGHT NOW HOLLA BACK

2007-02-15 08:14:07 · 5 answers · asked by blkdiva360 2 in Singles & Dating

to men that are confident and somewhat cocky/arrogant? (In general)

2007-02-15 08:14:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce