2007-02-15 08:19:19 · 12 answers · asked by Giegiesweet 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Feeling hurt comes from ego. Love dwells in a heart and is a gift of God. For the human duality we tend to judge love through mind criteria. If the mind was allowed to give judgement to love, would we feel so much pain, suffering? this pain comes from going against Love, also your love, just because someone did something differently from what you consider the best?
So, actually it is again a well known question how many times we should forgive? As long as we live... and keep following that sweet voice in our hearts, which is singing 'I love!' and then it's real love!
2007-02-15 08:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by Lika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has there own definition of love. There is no right answer. If you care, let her go, if she comes back, then it was meant to be.
To get hurt is the best way to learn your true feelings for one another. If you've never been hurt, then you've never loved.....
2007-02-15 08:24:32 · answer #2 · answered by Tulip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A real love to me is someone that will go to the end of the world for you. very few people know how to love unconditionally. WE are self-centered and selfish by nature.
2007-02-15 08:24:56 · answer #3 · answered by jacksonvillegarycollins 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we got hurt. guess it was something....might want to define it as 'love lost" or 'real love lost'?
if the person experienced pain...there must have to have been feelings of something greater. 'real love'
2007-02-15 08:25:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its like this..be true to yourself..when u find that person who makes u laugh when u feel like crying . a person who knows what u need the most without having to ask. that person who balances u out. it does exist..ive been hurt before and thought that chances were i would never know how true love was..but if you stay true to yourself it allows others to be open to you..good luck
2007-02-15 10:10:15 · answer #5 · answered by deborah y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take long time to define a real love after get the hurt
2007-02-15 08:33:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are if it hurts it isn't real love, as love is not suppose to hurt us. love is suppose to make us feel loved, and cared for. love is wonderful, and unconditional, it doesn't hurt us.
2007-02-15 08:25:01 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something inside of you will tell you. No one is perfect. There is no way to tell for sure. If there was we'd all be in a perfect relationship.
2007-02-15 08:24:21 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that you trust the person get to no them and stuff
2007-02-15 08:25:44 · answer #9 · answered by xxErikaxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you needs to give your heart time to heal wait for a while.. look back on your mistake and don't make the same mistake again
2007-02-15 08:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋