here is the story in a nutshell or a close as possible...
My sister had a boyfriend...he cheats on her with random girl...both find out...he begs for forgiveness...they go back together only to find out he is begging the other girl at the same time..guess he wanted two girlfriends...
They both dump him and become good friends...
after a while, the guy wants the random girl back again and she goes back to him...my sister tells the girl she cannot be friends with her anymore because of obvious reasons and wishes her well...my sis moved away and as expected random girl and the guy's relationship goes kaput!...
Now here is where I go in the picture...would it be bad of me to party with random girl?? Is that messed up as a sister??
2007-02-15 08:18:03 · 14 answers · asked by red_klinik 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes it would be twisted! Never back stab your sister! She's your blood.
2007-02-15 08:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by AmandaHugNKiss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would feel like I was totally betraying my sister if I were to be friends with random girl. If your sister dumped her as a friend, I feel it would not be okay to be random girls friend. If you have any doubts, you could always ask your sister what her feelings are about it. Friends come and go throughout our lives, but sisters are there for a lifetime.
2007-02-15 16:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by greeneyedgrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It’s not messed up at all. What happened with your sis and random girl has absolutely nothing to do with you. If you want you can ask your sis what she thinks of the whole thing just in case she finds out later on she doesn’t feel like you betrayed her. In my opinion if your sis is a smart person she wouldn’t care. Just because your sis can’t be a friend to her (and she has good reasons not to) doesn’t mean you can’t. I wouldn’t see you as a backstabber at all.
2007-02-15 16:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by *!* Kase *!* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Random girl seems not so random. Apparently, your sister and her husband both liked her. You like her too. She seems to be a very nice girl. It isn't easy to make friends with a girl (you) when her sister and her sister's husband have both dumped you.
2007-02-15 16:22:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anpadh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask your sister. Your first loyalty is to her, not to party at any opportunity. She may not mind at all, but if she does, you should respect her feelings.
I think as long as Random Girl is broken up with Loser Boy, it should be fine. You can have fun dissing him together.
2007-02-15 16:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that is messed up. Your relationship with your sister is much more important than a relationship with her back stabber friend.
2007-02-15 17:21:08 · answer #6 · answered by Shelby N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to your sis about it first. but if you do party with random girl, make sure you don't befriend her enough to take her side against your sis if that situation happens again
2007-02-15 16:21:42 · answer #7 · answered by B2B2008 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep, that is messed up. I would never do that to my sister. Family first.
2007-02-15 16:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by Michelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not messed up u can be friends with who ever u want to be friends with not just because ur sister doesn't want to be friends with her.
2007-02-15 16:23:36 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your life. You know your sister, we don't. How will she feel? How will you feel if you do this?
2007-02-15 16:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋