Should I ignore her or is she even my friend? Someone please HELP!!!!!!
2007-02-15 08:48:34 · 11 answers · asked by Kaitlyn A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dont do anything, she will come around. trust me, my best friend of 8 years is really dramatic, she used to ignore me everytime i messed anything up...but if i didnt grovel, she would just get over it.
2007-02-15 08:51:46 · answer #1 · answered by <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some time, and think about why she could be ignoring you.. maybe something you said or did, or even something you didn't say or didn't do. Wait a few days before talking to her, then she can cool off a little bit. After that sit her down and try to talk to her ask her why shes been ignoring you, and both of you share your views about the situation. They key to making up is to stay calm, even when its really hard to because they say something insensitive that hurts. Try to work iit out rationally, without yelling or hurting each others feelings. And if that doesn't work, and after you try it a couple times and she still hasnt come around, its safe to say that maybe she isnt being as good of friend to you as she could be! I had a similar situation like this once so I know it can be very frustrating, but usually with time these things have a way of repairing themselves! :) Hope I helped you out.
2007-02-15 08:55:26 · answer #2 · answered by K! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your so called best friend keeps ignoring you....well, now she's not your best friend or even a friend for that matter. If she isn't going to try and let you know what's the matter. Don't even bother with her. Just cut off all communication and ignore her.....Besides, what goes around comes around and I'm sure you would have better friends than her.
2007-02-15 08:53:13 · answer #3 · answered by ********* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pester your way into her life and figure out why she is offended. Listen to her and apologise for anything you did wrong, then buy her something that she really likes that only you would know about, or a reminder of a good time you had together or amke her something really heartfelt. There is prob reason for her ignoring you, the only other thing would be that her parents dont want you to hang with her, if this is the case find out and respectfully backout, or lovingly ask the parents why?
2007-02-15 08:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by jenski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it is a good oppurtunity and away from other people tell her that you feel she is ignoring you. She may have something else on her mind or she may have a problem with you.
Give her some space either way and tell her that whenever she needs something you will be there.
2007-02-15 08:52:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she mad at you? Did you do something to offend her?
Usually the best solution is just to talk to her and see what is going on in her life and why she is ignoring you. She might not even be doing it on purpose (i speak from personal experience)
just call her or something and ask her
2007-02-15 08:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by sftbllptgl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have so been down this road before..talk to her first and see what the prob. is but just to let you know..if she was a true best friend..she wouldnt be ignoring you
2007-02-15 08:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by mandapanda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if something is bothering her. If she doesn't want to talk, then there is nothing you can do about it. Don't wait around.
2007-02-15 08:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by chelebeee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about sending her an email or a letter?
2007-02-15 08:53:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first talk to her to see what is all about and then you can decide what to do
2007-02-15 08:51:56 · answer #10 · answered by deana m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋