(If this doesn’t apply to you, then good for you.)
Are you married and passionately in love with your spouse, your spouse who says they love you, and YET they have no interest in expressing that love physically through sex? Do they reject your desires, do they act like sex is a chore and a scourge to be avoided at all cost? Is everything else o.k. in the marriage except for this one thing? Did it leave you crushed on Valentines day to be without physical intimacy? Did it hurt extra just because it was Valentine’s day?
2007-02-15 08:52:33 · 14 answers · asked by JRSK007 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am and Yes I was. Yes the day makes everything worse. esspecially when you are the good looking one in the relationship, you are not cheating nor have you ever but he messes up the day cause of his lack of trust for you. ie I was at the store trying to buy him a card, lied and said I was at another store, so I am the lier and a horrible person since I didnt want to say, "I'll be home in 10 minutes, I just want to pick out a card for you!"
2007-02-15 09:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by tt1984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my husband,he swears he loves me he takes care of me and our children.But the sex is like a chore maybe 3 or 4 times a month in a good month.He barely bathes and puts on new kenneth cole cologne I bought him,yuck.I think he's only married to me because he's been married three times before and is 40 and doesnt want to be alone.
2007-02-21 17:35:36 · answer #2 · answered by Lynboges 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I am just SOOOOOO used to no pasion or sex I didn't even think about it being Valentine's day. Oh what I wouldn't give to know what it feels like to have someone desire me.....I would LOVE to be married to a horndog!!!!! My husband is ok with 2 or 3 times a month....I prefer 2 or 3 times a day! Everything else in our marriage is good....just no passion and very llittle boring sex.
2007-02-15 09:35:21 · answer #3 · answered by just me 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dude if she is anywhere near the age of 28 to 30..I feel for her. I felt nothing, for those urges dropped off then, and return when I turned 30. My hubby of 16 years just stood there and took what i would give and waited for the rest to fall into his lap. Hey, what can I say?? 33 is freaking awesome in that sense. Just hold on..she will come around.
2007-02-15 08:59:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband got here homestead from his deployment in Iraq on the top of January. via fact the third nighttime at homestead, he hasn't touched me lots to hold my hand. He says he desires time to conform with each thing. mutually as he grew to become into deployed, I gave start to our 1st daughter and we've 2 boys, besides. He now says he feels i do no longer choose him. He says I look so self sufficient now and that makes him sense helpless. i attempt to comprehend his desires, desperately, yet on Valentine's day, he did no longer even get me a card and that harm.He does not sense counseling is an selection, yet at this fee, it is hurting our marriage fantastically.
2016-10-02 05:03:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRY THIS: I got woke up to a dozen roses a beautiful card and chocolate.... we haven't had sex but 4 times in five months... so i buy this ADORABLE lingerie set to wear for him and he isn't even interested.... he hadn't even shved or anything for v-day... he had like a 2 week old beard on... and didn't even try to initiate anything even though i got off work at 11 p.m. took a shower and got all decked out in my outfit and came out and sat on the sofa like "i'm ready if you are" and he walked off to bed!
2007-02-15 11:31:19 · answer #6 · answered by Sam Fisher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a woman or a man? cuz i can't picture a man thinking se is a chore? well i bought this blk see through lace outfit layed on the bed, and he left the room and never came back, i ended up fallin asleep
2007-02-15 08:57:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in you shoes. Day doesn't matter, but understand that if you are gonna get some it might be a special day at least
2007-02-22 17:21:57 · answer #8 · answered by Cheryl F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, pretty much. After my coming through with flowers, candy, a DVD (Ghost) and some lovely underwear, I didn't even rate a damn card. It really hurt.
2007-02-15 09:02:30 · answer #9 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh God, here goes another man whinning about not getting any p*ssy! Poor f'ing baby! What the hell have you been doing for her lately for her to want to give it up to you in the first place! You think just because you are there she's supposed to want to be hot for you at the drop of a hat!?! Men are so stupid! Learn what she wants and GIVE IT TO HER ALL THE TIME [NOT JUST WHEN YOU WANT TO ***] and you'll get more sex dum-dum!
2007-02-15 08:59:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋