i was dating this girl for a while now and we where in love...but later i found out that she have STD..what shoud i do?
2007-02-15 08:52:03 · 10 answers · asked by andrewjumar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off its against the law to knowingly sleep with someone when you have an std and dont tell them. True love you will just know cause no one can tell you. If the std is treatable then treat it and move on. If its not then leave the girl cause stds are nasty and it is not worth!
2007-02-15 08:55:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What kind of STD? A permanent one? Or one that clears up with medication?
Either way, anyone can get an STD. All it takes is once, and the other person may not of even known they had it. It's got to be so devastating and embarassing for the one that finds out they have contracted one. People are in serious relationships and one partner has a weak moment and cheats, then brings it home to the other.
I'd say be understanding. If she took medication and it's cleared up, then no big deal.
If it's herpes or one that has no cure, that's a tough one. Because if she has children, she has a chance of passing it on when she gives birth. And of course you could get it too.
2007-02-15 09:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What does your current romantic situation have to do with your topic question?
You already know what love is, you said you felt it for her. Her having an STD doesn't change the fact that you loved her at one time, whether or not you still feel that way.
What STD does she have? Is it curable? Did she acquire it before or after you two were dating?
What you do about the situation is up to you, but I'd think the above questions would have some bearing on your decision.
2007-02-15 08:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
For who ever said see if it is curable: STDs are NOT curable. Once you have it you have it forever! There's no getting rid of it.
Anyways to answer your question! You should defiantly stay with her. That is what a real man would do! That's what you do when you love someone. Be there for her. I also think that you should get tested as soon as possible because you may have an STD yourself and not know it. Some STDs have no symptoms and you won't even know you have it so please get tested.
2007-02-15 09:00:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
If it is true love, do you wonder where the std came from
2007-02-15 08:55:14 · answer #5 · answered by jojonjesse 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well have her see if its curable, and if you love her then stay with her. Just use protection from now on. Also you should probably get tested as soon as possible.
2007-02-15 08:54:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
she didn't tell you she had an STD?!
move on
2007-02-15 08:56:05 · answer #7 · answered by Pel's MeL 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on!!
2007-02-15 08:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hhahah, she has the clap
sucks for u, homeboy
2007-02-15 08:55:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
LEAVE HER!!!! AND GO TO THE CLINIC ASAP!!!!!
2007-02-15 08:57:37 · answer #10 · answered by tmac19742002 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋