Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

I have recently gotten divorced from a women I was with for 10 years. She had an "awakening" that her life and our relationship was not what she needed it to be. So she decided she had to leave the relationship. When I tell you we had a great relationship, never really argued, enjoyed the same things in life, I mean it. All things pointed to having a perfect relationship until this "awakening". Since this I have heard at least 10 more stories exactly the same. A women in her early 30's did a 180 and left a relationship or marriage, leaving the man stunned becuase he had no signs that there was such a serious problem.

2007-02-15 09:06:09 · 9 answers · asked by jahnello 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-15 09:05:51 · 7 answers · asked by Questionnn 2 in Singles & Dating

I would like it...but why is it so much better?

2007-02-15 09:05:03 · 20 answers · asked by elementamigo92 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 09:03:49 · 7 answers · asked by bigdrip213 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

she always begins the problems ..in class i sit beside her one day before the school i saw her walking with my kinda enemy and when we got in class she told me{that girl was telling me not to talk to u{me}because u always laugh ..please dont laugh again} i agreed and then we made a deal ...fight infront of that girl[to make her get that we will leave each other]but at the end of the day i was writting a song she took it{my best f}and sang it i sang with her she shouted in me and said it is mine dont sing ;;i turned my head &didnt talk to her i talked to my other fr.she wrote my nam in a paper and gave it to the teacher he gave me -3 marks i shouted in her i told her whole the class was talking why me u r unfair she said{ok ok all that for just a song she got it out of her packpack and cut it and threw it in the basket wattttt cann i doooo helllppppppp!!!!!

2007-02-15 09:02:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Today I had the most terrible day. Everything was going ok until this geeky guy whom I hate came in from behind and lifted my skirt, and I was wearing like these ugly pair of underwear, and a lot of people saw it. Now, it wasn't that bad until I started to cry because of the humiliation, and stormed out of the classroom. Because of that, a lot more people realized that something had happened to me, and now everyone fount out that my skirt had been lifted, and like 85% of the school know my name, so the I bet the rumor has reached everyone, and I heard somewhere that even the rumor that I wasn't wearing any underwear is flying around.

Now, how am I supposed to face my friends and classmates tomorrow? What am I supposed to say to them? (I can't miss school tomorrow!)

I know this may sound stupid to you, but I feel really bad, and I need help.

2007-02-15 09:02:31 · 9 answers · asked by Funny Bunny 2 in Friends

I know the guy who bartends at a local bar, i know he is attracted to me and he has told his friends he likes me, but he has a girlfriend. so I keep my distance although that does not stop me from going there once in a while. He always seems happy to see me when I enter the bar, I never go more than casual flirting, and i leave. He usually does not charge me for drinks. The fact he has a girlfriend makes him seem untrustworthy, but he never makes any moves either, is it wrong for me to hope one day they breakup so I can go for him? Is there anymore that I can do without being sleezy to make him 'long' for me?

2007-02-15 09:02:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a poem put in to my schools newsletter on V-day for my crush and one of her friends (Who helps write it) shot her mouth off and told her i wrote it when i OBVIOUSLY didnt want her to cuz a put in Anonymous.
Anyways she told me it was 2 mushy.
Does that mean she wants me to be i bit more testosterone filled or wat?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
thx.

2007-02-15 09:02:00 · 11 answers · asked by gecko the brave 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm not gay just wanted to experiment

2007-02-15 09:01:41 · 14 answers · asked by bird 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother keeps yelling at me for random reasons. He yelled at my for not turning off the exhaust in the bathroom when he could. He screamed at me when I lost a McDonald's giftcard that only have about $5 left on it. He keeps calling me stupid, and a *****. He told my mom that he hates me and my older sister, because she didn't pick him up from school when it's not her responsibility and he could have gotten a ride. I do not know what is wrong with him. He is usually very moody, but he's been over the top lately. When he yells at me he makes me feel useless. He doesn't care about what I have to say, or how I feel. It's just all about him yelling and insulting me. Should I just get over it? I can't bear the feeling of someone I love more than anyone will ever know yelling at me and hating me. I care about him so much. What should I do?

2007-02-15 09:00:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

okay so me and this guy both like each other and he sed to my friend today that he'd rather have me ask him out but I wanted him to ask me so it was more romantic now all of my friends are telling me to ask him but how weird would that sound "Do you wanna be my boyfriend." what should I do???

2007-02-15 08:59:50 · 4 answers · asked by xnanax143 1 in Singles & Dating

Also why do some people spend thousands, and get divorced within 6 month?WHY?

2007-02-15 08:59:31 · 40 answers · asked by OldBigHead 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am dating an older man whom was previously married. From what I hear, the last few years of his marriage was a train wreck and the divorce wasn't much better. ( From people I have talked to, they tell me that the marriage was doomed from the start, and only happened because she got pregnant)
Anyways, yesterday was Valentine's Day and he gave me a dozen beautiful red roses. I LOVED THEM.
I was talking to his mother today and I told her about the gift. She was completely floored by it!! Apparently, he has never bought flowers for anyone before...ever! Not even for his ex wife...NOBODY! I couldn't believe it!!! So, in a way...I see this as really special.....wouldn't you? And why me? Why would he buy me flowers, but never any other woman?

2007-02-15 08:59:25 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 08:59:25 · 12 answers · asked by Domonique 1 in Singles & Dating

hes a sweetheart i just dont know how to aproach him

2007-02-15 08:59:09 · 7 answers · asked by maddy 1 in Singles & Dating

me and this 22 and 26 years old guy mess around we slept together and im 15 yrs old is that to old age and nuthn but a number, right?

2007-02-15 08:58:54 · 9 answers · asked by ripmandy4ever 1 in Singles & Dating

I am so confused yet so sad. I have been dating my now boyfriend for about 5 months and the first 3 months were out of this world. Honestly, we got along as the best of friend, we laughed together and he was there any time I needed him for a shoulder to cry on. I am completely and utterly attracted to the guy. He is honest, sincere, loyal, TRUSTWORTHY, HOT, has a beautiful house, and I KNOW he would be a Wonderful father. If I had the choice of any father for my "imaginary" children it would 150% be him. He is completely real. Although 6 months before we started dating I dated a complete jerk for a year. He was abusive, he was a cop until he got caught for abusing me, all in all short story he ended up getting fired and he is no longer a cop, got caught for DUI, is 35 and cannot keep a girlfriend cause he is a player. Although, he was able to steal my heart my sweet talking me and I ended up very hurt when we broke up - I think he still owns a piece of my heart although I hate him at the same time.

So that being said, this relationship I am in is my 1st non dramatic relationship and I feel as though something is missing. I hate saying what I dont like about him cause it makes me sound ridiculous but I feel like his niceness is too much sometimes, I analyze everything he does. My ex could dress up in a pink tu-tu with one of my bra's and I would have just laughed but honestly if my new beau were to do that I think I would judge him based on it. I still enjoy spending time with him, I enjoy having sex with him and I enjoy relaxing with him but for some reason I dont feel like I love him like I am supposed to. I sometimes get frustrated with how much he kisses me or is all over me but I think I can over it. What I am asking is why is this happening. During the 1st 3 months things became very serious. We moved in together and I was 150% sure I wanted to start my life with him, now I question myself and I dont know why. Is my gut trying to tell me something or am I just not used to having a normal/healthy relationship. If there is anything in this world that I want to work it would be this relationship. I know I could have an incredible life with him. But I feel stressed cause I dont know if this is what love is supposed to feel like?!?!?!

Or could it be because for the past 5 months we have spent EVERY night together. Honestly every night?!?!?! Is there any way we can make this work and KNOW that I am IN LOVE with him?!?!?
Why dont I feel "love" for him?

2007-02-15 08:58:47 · 9 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Did you suspect anything beforehand, or was it a surprise?

I'm not looking for advice, I just want to read your stories.

2007-02-15 08:58:16 · 7 answers · asked by rainfingers 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother died recently and during the time of her illness, my brother became executor of the will. Mom had to hide her assets from where she lived and he opened an account, which my brother has access to. I don't know in who's name it was opened with, nor the amounts. My brother is in the state of Florida. Mom resided in New York at the time of her demise. Upon the reading of the will it states that her children (Which is my brother and myself) receive one third each. The remaining third go to her Great-grandchildren (Brothers childrens children) Now I have 3 sons and I don't beleive that a will should be based on the amount of children or who had them, but by leaving it to the origional children equally. What the children want to divide with their children is ok with me. How do I also find out about the accounts. My brother doesn't want to discuss the matter. For all I know their may be a few accounts set up. He was a sneek and never told the truth. My mother never confided in me.

2007-02-15 08:57:53 · 3 answers · asked by pitmn005 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is there a guy that is 16-18 that lives in guntersville Alabama and goes to Guntersville high school that comes on here?

2007-02-15 08:57:43 · 9 answers · asked by kayla r 1 in Singles & Dating

He asked me out yesterday we have dated before and he cheated on me so we broke up but i never stopped loving him and now he likes me again so we are going out is this right?

2007-02-15 08:56:47 · 14 answers · asked by cutiepie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 08:56:10 · 9 answers · asked by jennifer g 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

girls do you prefer sex that is slow with lots of foreplay, touching, kissing etc or being totally dominated as in just rough and fast, lots of crazy positions etc (does it depend on situation as well such as one night stand etc..)..coz I'm more of the 1st type of guy and wish I could be more rough n ready..especially for one night stands

2007-02-15 08:56:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what r some early signs of control from a man in a relationship?what kinds of things do u consider to be controlling of a man's actions?Also these days most women say they dont like control and they want to b equal partners, where no one partner has authority or say over the other? what is your opinion on this subject?

2007-02-15 08:55:57 · 9 answers · asked by dreamz 4 in Marriage & Divorce

every bf has lied to me or cheated on me...i just met the sweetest guy...how do i trust him not to break my heart?

2007-02-15 08:55:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just asked a girl out, but I could be leaving very soon for Basic Training (I've been thinking this for about a month, it's taking longer than expected). We've been flirting and stuff for about a month, and I was going to ask earlier, but I though I would be leaving. Should I have just let it go and not asked her to have dinner with me?

2007-02-15 08:55:02 · 15 answers · asked by JEHLERS 2 in Singles & Dating

He didn't lick my body at all. Even, while we were kissing hehe diddn't use his tongue.

2007-02-15 08:54:55 · 13 answers · asked by Megan C 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 08:54:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This guy who I'm pretty sure likes me and I think I like him too made me a Valentine's Day card, but as we were walking home, my backpack flew open and it blew away. I walked back to school to see if I could find it but I couldn't. Now he says he's making me another one! I feel guilty for that, should I?

Also, should I make him something a little small or would that make it seem like I got him something just because he did? If so, what should it be? It's got to be something small though, because we're only just friends.

2007-02-15 08:54:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can u find a half sis if the only thing u know about them is there name i know its not alot to go with

2007-02-15 08:53:55 · 5 answers · asked by milkme2002003 2 in Other - Family & Relationships